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Monday, March 09, 2020

It's been 33 years ago today I lost the love of my life. We had 3 sons who kept me on my toes. They were 12,13,and 16. It was a tough day but i made it through.
I love Ken my husband now but it's a different love.
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    I grieve for your sad heart in losing the love of your life. I know that you adore Ken but as you say...it is different. I can't even imagine meeting anyone else...I feel like no one could ever hold a candle to my Donnie...but I also HATE being alone day after day and night after night so I try to be open-hearted if that is where my life leads me.

    Wouldn't you know it...now I have tons of time on my hands and we are pretty much on lockdown for social gatherings...one day we will be able to get together my friend!

    You are such a beautiful friend....I'm so happy we got to meet and you got to meet my sweetheart!

    494 days ago
    What an amazing blessing to have 2 loves in your life!
    506 days ago
  • HOLLYM48
    Sending hugs and wishes for a good day of remembrance of your first husband.
    508 days ago
    Thanks everyone who responded to my blog. It is a very personal but I feel like you are all like family to me. You never let me down. Thanks again and God bless
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  • LYNCHD05
    How could you ever forget the father of your children. Love has been good to you as you are lucky to have founds a new love. Life is precious. I know you appreciate it.
    508 days ago
  • CATE195
    I know how that loss stays with you forever even if you have a wonderful second husband. emoticon
    508 days ago
    Nice that you continue to remember and show love to them after they are gone. Memories are so wonderful and you did great with going through raising your boys. emoticon
    508 days ago
    I'm so sorry for your loss, Judi, but I am glad you found Ken. emoticon
    508 days ago
  • FROSTY99
    I know the feeling well. I lost my high school sweetheart after 22 years of marriage, then lost Bill (the man who helped me raise my sons) after 28 years. Now I am going with one of Bill's friends. I never thought my life would turn out like this but I have realized life is for the living and each love has it's special points and I feel God brings us together for a reason. I would never had met Earl had it not been that Bill made a friend of him and he was there this summer to help me thru my grief.

    I am happy you have found Ken and can share a loving life with him.
    509 days ago
    I can't even imagine! You've doe a great job of taking care of yourself and your sons.
    509 days ago
    So sorry for your loss, you never ever forget.
    509 days ago
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