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Not Doing So Well!

Friday, October 04, 2019

I am disappointed I have not been able to exercise and have put on 2 pounds. I need to work on that. Also the last two nights I have had my daughters and I ate out at restaurants. I didn't hold back and ate everything offered.

Anyway, my daughters were quiet when I took them out last night for dinner. I think my Michelle is mad at me. She didn't have much to say. At least she still wanted a hug and a kiss when we were done. I wish it had gone a little bit better.

I was going to try to get out of work a half an hour early, but the girl I work with didn't come in so I couldn't even ask.

My ex is posting pictures of the new girlfriend on Facebook and she is also putting the picture on her profile. I know I need to stop obsessing and just not care. At least I know not to write to the new girlfriend about how bad ex is. I wish her luck I really do. It will only be a matter of time before she realizes how he is and that he only wants a slave to work around the house because he is too lazy to do the inside house work. I mean maybe not because he has my daughters do the cleaning now! Or at least Michelle does it.

I don't think I like her but oh well. I don't really care either. I am over my ex but don't want anyone new in my life because of all the problems I have with him.
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    This is one of the few places I can admit it - but I cannot wait for the day I outlive She Who Shall Not Be Named, aka the evil stepmother. In a change from the ordinary turn of events, my ex took up with his “soulmate” who is 10 yrs older than him & 14 yrs older than me. (That makes her 69 to my 55 BTW)
    It has nothing to do with wanting him back & everything to do with her horrible abuse of my son over the years.
    She gives me impetus whenever I want to slack off on my workouts or overindulge my appetite!
    41 days ago
    My husband is the same way. He expects me to take care of EVERYTHING with the kids, cooking, cleaning, laundry all of that. Part of me wishes I had a job too because I hate to be treated like a slave just because he brings money home. As soon as my little baby gets a little older I'm getting a job because no one should have to live like this and I'm actually jealous of you able to have your own space and not have to deal with that toxic ex every day. OK, my rant is over lol.

    Hoping everything gets better with your daughters soon.
    45 days ago
    Look at it this way--maybe they deserve each other!

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    46 days ago
    Hang in there. Take this time to pray, meditate, and workout. The best thing is to show them that you are healthy physically, mentally and emotionally.
    47 days ago
    Geez! I feel your pain. Divorce/separation is hard, and if your kids are teenagers like mine, they are giving me grief for every stupid little thing. Good luck with letting that ex go. I know it's hard because of the kids, though.
    47 days ago
    47 days ago
    Be thankful that he is someone else's headache now !
    47 days ago
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