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Attending the Birthday Bash

Wednesday, August 07, 2019

We have a monthly Birthday Bash at work, where we celebrate all birthdays for that month. My husband refers to these activities as "Romper Room." Jealous. I was an August baby, so I attended. I haven't been to the last couple of Bashes, because I was avoiding contact with human beings. No, seriously, since having a much younger coworker mocking my friendliness towards her, I have been keeping away from a couple of the newer employees in our department.

I wrote about this here, because it hit me a lot harder than I thought it should have. Oh, well. What I have learned is that it's better to be more reserved with people you don't know well. To protect your own ego. Particularly when you go over to the gray-headed division, which is an invitation taken by some for being made fun of and of being ignored. I've noticed that people react a little differently to me now.

But my fellow "senior" worker asked me if I was going to go, so I did. Senior as in more experienced. And my manager sent a message about hoping to see all her "birthday girls" at the Bash. Another person had a birthday, too.

So I went. The younger workers sat with their friends, hallelujah and praise the Lord. It was pleasant. I usually eat fresh fruit salad, but since it was my month, I had a piece of cake. It had a fudgy mousse layer. It hit my unaccustomed system like a drug. I also got a handmade chocolate lollypop, which made it into my car after work. Once the key was in the ignition, it was half eaten. You know the rest of the story. That poor lolly didn't make it out of the parking lot.

When I got home, I felt so exhausted I had to lie down. I thought, "Wow, this stuff really is like poison." I made myself get up and make a simple dinner. Eating raw veggies helped a little.

So I am back to my regular eating habits today. I was doing well on not snacking as much, but the stress of work threw me off. Back on the horse.

I am almost done viewing the documentary made by a formerly obese, but now recovered and thin and diabetes-less person. I enjoy this sort of thing, being a vegan/nutrition nerd. On today's segment, Jon went to a weekend "change your habits to low fat and plant based" conversion. On that Sunday, he blew it, going to an Italian restaurant and BEGINNING with two bread bowls with dipping oil. He was honest and vulnerable relating this. He was afraid he was going to blow it and embarrass himself with the documentary by ultimately failing. Admitting to succumbing to cravings, pressure, and sharing his self doubts. But there he is, popping up at the end of the video, a year later and 120 pounds lighter.

So he succeeded. I'm inspired by his humanity and humble presentation. It's a road. You can't expect perfection. You have to just keep tying on your shoes and getting back on that road. Hopefully you are taking notes along the way.
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    So many comments and questions on your excellent blog:
    1. At least they serve fruit salad
    2."which is an invitation taken by some for being made fun of and of being ignored" They know not what they do. They will not have this knowledge until they are older. This is real. Thanks for sharing. This is why you need powerful women of this age who can empower each other. Be an example of what this age should be.
    3. Great to get back on the plan without beating yourself up. Plenty of other people who can do it for you, haha.
    4. What was the video you watched? Is there a link I missed?
    5. Your blog post inspired me to write one of my own...Check it out.

    Happy birthday!

    cDougall Plan Co leader
    12 days ago

    Comment edited on: 8/9/2019 10:44:11 AM
    Happy Birthday greetings!!! I get you on the cake "bomb" hitting your system, it is a most unpleasant feeling. Glad you did it and are now back on track.
    I must go back and see if I can watch the rest of the series from the link you posted: it is advertised on FB but I don't want to buy it.
    13 days ago
    emoticon and your blog, emoticon
    14 days ago
    emoticon So glad you went to the birthday party and that you had fun! Happy August birthday too!!
    14 days ago
    Happy Birthday and yes, sugar does the same to me . . . . tired, tired, tired!

    But you're back on the path. That's what is important.
    14 days ago
  • MAWMAW101
    Happy Happy Birthday! emoticon
    14 days ago
    Hi, DONNA_CPS2, and thanks! I'm very impressed at your involvement in life post-retirement.
    14 days ago
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    14 days ago
    I remember when I was in my late fifties, someone asked when I was going to retire. I replied as soon as the clock strikes the number I will be out. Then I went to school for taxes, and did them for 13 years as an AARP volunteer. Worked in a resale shop (volunteering ) for 13 years. Many projects on church activiities which I still do at 75 plus! emoticon
    14 days ago
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