DLDMIL Hope this makes you laugh. My Mom is 83 and my great niece is 8. Mom: I don't remember where I put the papers for you. Niece: Lulu you need to dust the file cabinets in your brain, so you can remember things. Mom: yes, I do, will you help me. Niece: no, I can't help you dust those file cabinets, I am not a surgeon.