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Fear of Failure leads to FAILURE

Saturday, May 04, 2019



The dictionary says that fear is: a distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain, etc., whether the threat is real or imagined; the feeling or condition of being afraid.

It states that FAILURE is: nonperformance of something due, required, or expected: a failure to do what one has promised.

Have you been promising yourself that you were going to lose weight? Exercise more? Eat healthier? Have you held to your promise to yourself? If not, perhaps it's because you have been told before you are going to fail (Again), or you have tried before and failed hopelessly because of lack of whatever (willpower, encouragement, etc).

The bottom line is if you think you are going to fail (fear) than you most likely will (failure)

So...how can you turn it around? What can you do to stop failure?

Let's think about what the opposite of failure can be.

Improvement: the act of improving or the state of being improved

And what do you suppose the opposite of fear would be? How about courage: have the courage of one's convictions, to act in accordance with one's beliefs, especially in spite of criticism.

I believe I'd rather choose courage over fear and improvement over failure. How about you? Think today of something you can change about your journey. What would you choose? What will be your goals to get there? Is it time to re-evaluate your goals?

If you think about it a goal is 5 steps:


Remember when you first started Spark and you were asked to do a collage? How many of you actually did it? Perhaps this can be your goal. Make your collage, make a plan, etc, etc. AND HAVE FAITH THAT IT WILL WORK OUT.

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