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Justice for Bobby and his funeral

Tuesday, April 03, 2018

Per my last blog "I just got a call that my brother-in-law Bobby (my sister Connie's husband) was murdered tonight. I just can't believe it.. So much loss since October (Connie died Oct 24, 2017). Thank God I believe in a higher power. I don't know what I'd do if I didn't"

You would not believe what we have found out about the woman Bobby met a mere 36 days ago and how this woman manipulated him. He signed everything over to her. A home worth over $200,000, 6 acres of land and his retirement account that had over $400,000 in it.

I'm attaching a few clips of what this woman has managed to do in the past 7 years in her community. Oh how I wish we had known about her.

These are only two things of the many we know about her now. I was lucky enough to contact the person overseeing his retirement account. I am so lucky I went to school with him. I called him the night Bobby died and told him this lady was under investigation for the death of my brother-in-law. He called me Sunday night. He told me she has already called him 4 x over the Easter holiday weekend. He decided to call me first before calling her on Monday. What he did tell me was because of Bobby's death he would not be sending out his monthly retirement check of $2000. He told me he would drag it out as long as he could but of course he needs a copy of the death certificate before he can do anything. This girl is so freakin' clever it isn't funny.

I wrote a long letter to the Marion Co Sheriff Department. Things about Bobby that all of us knew, what we suspected, how much she stands to gain over his death.

His nephew works at the Marion Co Court House. He personally went and talked to the judge Monday morning because she was going to turn in the notarized will that she and Bobby had drawn up. So it could be placed in probate court. He refused to take the will when she presented it yesterday until the autopsy report was back.

I had friended this lady of facebook a few weeks back at Bobby's request so I could get to know here. We have had several conversations about my sister's belongings especially those surrounding musical equipment that was my grandmothers because I would like to keep it in the family. She agreed, now she recanted last night once she found out I was going to AL for the funeral. Her basic words were "We could take the dogs now, but the other stuff has to wait for her lawyer to give approval"

I can't believe I'm saying good-bye to Bobby on Thursday. My mind can't seem to wrap around these tragic events that led up to his death. I cry everyday and this pain has only added to the pain from when Connie (his wife, my sister) passed away in October and my mom's death in July of 2016.

On a completely different note it doesn't help I flunked my drug test for my new job because of my prescription hydrocodone acetaminophen that I take for my knee. The new place did the test in front of me. I had to sign all kinds of papers for it to be sent off to get tested. I told them before I took it I would fail it due to that medicine. Hopefully my being honest out of the gate will help me to get the job and keep it.

Well you have had enough of my rantings for one day. Please keep my family in your thoughts and prayers as we begin this journey.

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    As we get older we see way too many of these situations! It is horrible that people prey on others.

    Connie and her husband are together now...I'm hope that can be some comfort. If they can I know they are trying to influence things down here to get things put right as far as possible.

    It is just beyond understanding.....what little it takes for some people to turn to murder.

    So sad.
    322 days ago
    emoticon ..I am so sorry for loss...I hope you get justice that you seek
    344 days ago
    349 days ago
    I pray Bobby is resting in peace!!! That woman needs to be behind bars!!! Justice will prevail!!!
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    349 days ago
    Such a horrendous loss. I hope justice is served and they "throw away the key" once she has been tried. Your family has so much to endure, most likely for many months to come. My prayers and condolences as you travel to AL and attend your brother-in-law's funeral. So sad.
    352 days ago
    Goodness Donna, I am at a loss for words for once but I am praying that justice be served and truth prevail! ..... ( Along time ago I used to watch Forensic medicine and so I see people like this really do exist to prey on the goods of others)..... Rest assured, even in situations where the judicial system has failed in our country, God sits in the Supreme Court which is greater than man's with the laws of seed time and harvest. Simply stated: "That which a man sows or woman shall he reap!".... there is nothing that is done in this earth that does not go unnoticed by God!
    ( But I am certainly praying that justice be served in the laws of the land and the guilty party be found and that it not be drug out!)..... I am so sorry Donna and I'm sure it is unnecessary for me to even say this but we simply cannot be too careful about who we become friends with or more. This world has changed drastically!
    352 days ago

    Comment edited on: 4/3/2018 2:34:53 PM
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray justice is served.
    352 days ago
    If a medication is prescribed you should not flunk the lab. You must report all meds which you did the exception would be if that medication would put yourself or others at risk of harm.

    So sorry to hear how someone took advantage of his grief to manipulate him. Hopefully the truth will come out.
    352 days ago
    So sad, I am glad you believe in a higher power. Gee I hope what you said about taking the meds is ok and you will keep your job.
    352 days ago
    I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope that witch gets what she deserves and NOT all that Bobby had. Praying for you and your family. emoticon
    352 days ago
    I hope life takes a turn and starts going your way. Stay strong. emoticon
    352 days ago
    I pray that they find her guilty of murder and do not let her have anything it looks like a get rich quick plan on her part and she needs to go to prison

    praying for you and your family
    352 days ago
    so sorry for your loss. I hope they hold her accountable for what she has done you are in my prayers
    352 days ago
    My goodness, Donna. There just aren't words . . . I just am so sorry and I pray there is justice for your beloved brother-in-law. I pray, too, for your family to ease the pain you're going through.

    As for the drug test, I hope all works out.

    Life is so difficult for you and I am so very sorry.
    352 days ago

    Comment edited on: 4/3/2018 6:49:08 AM
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