BONOLICIOUS2

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Goodbye

Wednesday, December 06, 2017

I've made the decision to officially cut ties with Sparkpeople. I'll be unsubscribing from emails and all after this post. I'll keep the page alive because I don't want to lose my old blogs, but I may never come back and post again.

If you want to find me "IRL" start with Instagram - beezandbea

Yesterday I posted what I thought was a status update. I logged on and this entire site was one gigantic weight loss medication ad. The background, the banners, everything - covered in a drug company's promotion for an easy fix to your weigh problems. I've got a real issue with drug companies taking advantage of people, and advertising a weight loss drug on a weight loss site is, well, pretty predatory. Maybe you can ignore what is literally flashing at you on the screen, but it super rubbed me the wrong way, and I posted a status about that.

Nearly instantly I was attacked by several people telling me to get over it, install a blocker, move along. I was called negative, sarcastically labeled as a "ray of sunshine"... I was shocked.

I get it - they need advertising dollars here. But don't push your choice of paid ads on me, at least use retargeted ones from shoes I've looked at. Those I'm cool with, creepy though they be. I generally use this site on my ipad now, so I can't really "just block ads". And no, I'm not going to buy premium just to avoid ads - I've used this site for free for YEARS and it's never been as bad as the past six months for their choice of allowed promotions. It just ISN'T RIGHT by me to allow a drug company to splash their branding all over a page where people may be struggling and become prey to that mentality of taking a pill to fix a bigger issue. I'm sorry I have feelings and values? I guess I shouldn't have voiced them.

I think this site has super gone downhill since I joined. Back in the day, it used to be a wonderfully supportive community. I learned so much, made connections, and I never ever experienced what I did last night with the attitudes. People used to pick you up when you were down, not tell you to make sure you're bursting with sunshine and rainbows no matter what. I've never been one to sugarcoat the negatives, that's called lying to yourself. Even worse - the same people who are telling me to keep scrolling just couldn't do it themselves. Only one person commented on my blog about losing weight but several could take the time to bash my status update. It's pretty clear where the folks on this site stand these days. I'm as much about avoiding fakeness and hypocrites as I am about avoiding drug company advertising.

So with that, I bid you adieu. It's been a long run. Cheers.





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  • NELLJONES
    I signed up for Premium just to avoid the ads, and for the extra 25 points per day. The AdblockPro browser extension helped, too. I hope you find non=commercial support somewhere.
    909 days ago
  • PHEBESS
    I'm so sorry to see you go, but I totally understand, especially getting responses from people like that! (People are just so weird, aren't they?)

    I also agree about the ads, and I've sent complaints to SP about some of them - I was getting ads about mail order brides and weird stuff like that! And that was with an ad blocker in place!

    So yes, the ads are a pain and some of the services here at SP have definitely gone downhill. (Don't get me started on the SP coach who told me that Jesus was right...........)

    I wish you well in all of your endeavors - and I will miss our occasional online chats! I just can't add one more thing, so instagram is out. (Plus I don't have a smartphone, just a laptop, so there are apps that don't work for me.)

    Have a wonderful rest of your life!

    -Phebe



    909 days ago
  • MWARNER211
    I was surprised to see a McDonalds app advertisement on here today. The site definitely isn't what it used to be. Sorry to see you had such a bad experience. 😯
    910 days ago
  • SUNNYCALIGIRL
    I block ads for free with AdBlock because I have Google Chrome. Sorry you are so upset; hope you can return at a later date. I know how you feel, that's why I use Ad Block. I had one troll and I just blocked her from my SP pages (forgot how I did that) and before I did that I consistently 'reminded' her that she was a TROLL before I figured out how to block her from my SP pages, no more nasty back handed comments.
    910 days ago

    Comment edited on: 12/6/2017 11:40:47 AM
  • WHITEANGEL4
    I am sorry to see you go. I too do always like the choice of ads at times. Hubby and I are into natural foods an
    don't the use of foods, fruits and herbs for health



    910 days ago
  • 50YEARSAWIFE
    Sorry . Take care
    910 days ago
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