Monday, October 16, 2017
I've been married 6 months. Since getting married my husband lost his physical 60 hour a week job a few days after the honeymoon. He got a desk job making a low wage 40 hours a week (which depresses him, not me). He quickly gained 50 pounds. Back in June he wanted to join a trendy meat market type gym. I talked him into the Y because it has the same amenities for him with a family atmosphere and easy cancellation if we aren't using it. He went 3 or 4 times and hasn't been back. I've been about 15 times. The last 3 months he is sleeping all the time often not even waking up to spend time with me in the evening. He won't bring healthy lunches I pack him. He talks about that he's dying ( physical last month, physically he's fine)and feeling worthless. He barely helps around the house and doesn't always contribute financially. He won't talk about it and I am getting angry with the lack of companionship and help.
Tonight he's off work. He usually will get up and hang out on his nights off. I've been home since 6. He hasn't been up. I don't know what to do. This is making me sad and hurt and confused. Don't have friends or family I want to burden with this. Anyone been in this situation? I don't know what to do.