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Thursday, February 09, 2017

Last night, I was looking at wedding dresses and made a comment about how I liked one, but it would look horrible on me. Then, my partner made a comment about how I would look great in it. Of course, I dismissed him. Then, he goes on to say I'm starting to turn into skin and bones. Whaaaaat? I still have weight to lose. I'm not crazy. My bmi is still in the overweight range, so I know it's not a body image issues. I really believe that he's afraid of me loosing too much weight. We've been together for 13 years and I have always been heavy, okay obese, but now that's going to change. He was always super skinny and now has the Buddha Belly. I still love him and find him sexy. Will we survive a role shift? I hope so. I just need to stay strong and not let his innocent comments get to me. He means well, so I guess I'll keep him.
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  • KEERAKYRAM
    It takes.time.for.them to adjust
    644 days ago
  • LUVMYLIFE57
    Maybe he'll join you, give him time. My husband used to make fun of my "healthy foods" now he is gradually changing his eating habits, he even asked for my input. That's a biggie!
    644 days ago
  • no profile photo ROSSYFLOSSY
    I agree with Dorothy. You just need to feel happy about yourself.
    644 days ago
  • DOROTHY592
    U will survive ...it's his insecurity talk it out
    644 days ago
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