Thursday, February 09, 2017
Last night, I was looking at wedding dresses and made a comment about how I liked one, but it would look horrible on me. Then, my partner made a comment about how I would look great in it. Of course, I dismissed him.
Then, he goes on to say I'm starting to turn into skin and bones. Whaaaaat? I still have weight to lose. I'm not crazy. My bmi is still in the overweight range, so I know it's not a body image issues. I really believe that he's afraid of me loosing too much weight. We've been together for 13 years and I have always been heavy, okay obese, but now that's going to change. He was always super skinny and now has the Buddha Belly. I still love him and find him sexy.
Will we survive a role shift? I hope so. I just need to stay strong and not let his innocent comments get to me. He means well, so I guess I'll keep him.