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Friday, January 27, 2017

My partner told me last night that he's concerned about me loosing too much weight and becoming unhealthy. Now, I've lost 90 lbs and still have 15-20 lbs until I am at a healthy BMI . I would like to lose another 44 lbs, which will still keep me at a healthy BMI. I think he's more worried about me changing who I am and our relationship. We've been together for 13 years now and have had our issues, which getting married is one of the biggest ones. So, loosing weight is now highlighting other issues. Trying to stay positive and motivated.
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  • no profile photo PRESTORJON
    It's your journey..It's your body..It's your life..It's your efforts that are taking you there. Good Luck with everything. I know how demotivating a difficult partner/friend can be.👍
    540 days ago
  • CHERRIFREE75
    The people we love sometimes get scared when we change. He may be afraid of losing you. Reassure him often that you are committed to your relationship as well as your weight loss. Congrats on your success. Have a great day.
    540 days ago
  • NIECIEMAE2016
    Do what's best for you!! Congratulations on the weight loss! 😃 I wish you all tha BEST!
    540 days ago
  • no profile photo ROSSYFLOSSY
    Do what makes you feel better and happy.
    540 days ago
  • EISSA7
    Keep steady on your healthy journey....you are making awesome progress!! The other issues will need to be addressed but do NOT compromise your weight loss to do so!
    540 days ago
  • 1HAPPYSPIRIT
    Remain positive.....you will know when you feel comfortable in your body.
    540 days ago
  • RAPUNZEL53
    Good Luck! It is always good to be at a healthy BMI.
    540 days ago
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