Monday, October 24, 2016
It has been a very long month!
Somehow we all survived getting ready for the visitation and Funeral. There were many friends of Johns we didn't realize he knew, and many didn't realize he is our son.
He had a beautiful (if you could put it that way) funeral. Considering he didn't actually 'belong' to any one Church. Our Senior Pastor had the service and our Music Pastor, sang and paid tribute to John. It sure helped us, his family get through it. The family were all there except for g.d. hubby. He is dep.oyed to Kosaval.
JOHN HAD EVERYTHING taken care of. I furnished the lot. It is on my family plot which I inherited. It is adjacent to my home place where Dad and I were borned.
He is such a handsome man. It's just a darn shame. He had overcome the cord around his neck when borned. He had overcome his Autism. People didn't realize he was unless they were childhood friends or had access to his medical charts. He lived on his own, and then have this to happen! No one deserves it, but, he never had a chance.
Fought through all that, then lose his life to CANCER! It's just not fair!
I think he suffered ore than we realized. He just wouldn't give in to the pain.
Now it's visiting the grave, remembering the good xs, and what could have been!
He and I made our arrangements to meet and be together forever.
The appt has been cleared out, and life go on. Or does it