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Bye Bye boyfriend

Sunday, July 10, 2016

I broke up with my boyfriend because we would make plans and he wouldn't follow through. Well, he would go minus me. I deserve fabulous. My weight is never going to make me feel like I have to settle for less. I don't and neither do you. Actually, there is not a single reason you have to settle for less.

I see people put up with craziness because they want to be married so badly or they fear ending up alone. Personally, if marriage was never in the picture, I am okay with that. More an okay. It's not going to break my heart. Being single has its perks. No, really, it does. :)

Look at the people in your life. If you are with someone, make sure they are treating you well. Being afraid of being alone or feeling like you are "too old" to still be single are not reasons to keep a relationship going.

"Most of my socks are single and you don't hear them crying about it." Haha

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  • BEFIT018
    Sorry you broke up with your boyfriend. But, you're right, NEVER settle.
    I miss being single...
    861 days ago
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    862 days ago
    You DO deserve fabulous!!!
    I didn't think this guy deserved you..
    Enjoy some time alone and if it's meant to be, the right person will come along at the right time.
    Feel free to feel a little bit sad though, if it applies... I guess change always brings something bittersweet with it, and you had been friends for a long time.
    863 days ago
    Sorry about your break up but I think that you are correct, it is better to be alone than to be with someone who does not treat you properly. You will find the right one someday. Best wishes! PS - my socks too!
    863 days ago
    Well written. You will know when the right one comes. Until than you are going to be just fine on your own.
    863 days ago
  • FELINE20
    That is a fantastic attitude and OMG I laughed hard at your statement about the socks
    863 days ago
  • no profile photo ROXYCARIN
    Great attitude!
    863 days ago
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