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Friday, July 08, 2016

So I have yet again failed! Anyone who has read my page or goes and reads it now will see that I fail a lot.....I'm serious I fail so much. Part of me feels like it is because I set my goals unrealistically but they are not, another part of me feels like eh this is how it's been for so many years why change now, then there is that little pest in me who says who cares no one is looking at you anyways because you've been fat for so long and you bring nothing to the table. Ugh why can I not succeed at this? Why can I not just get up everyday like all the other people I see on Facebook and Twitter and exercise and eat right? Why do they have it so easy? I can't even find a recent full body shot! None not 1 in the past 6 months :(
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    I agree with James. Sometime you have to eat different not just less. That's what I finally had to do. I am enjoying now failing less than ever in my life when it comes to eating and losing weight.

    AND for pete's sake don't compare yourself to what people post on social media. Anyone can paint a rosy picture of how their life is....but it doesn't make it so...especially ALL of the time.
    1774 days ago
    You should not be so cruel on yourself.
    1774 days ago
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    You are not a failure if you keep trying! A failure gives up and stops trying. It is hard and that's why this site is so important. Stay on this site no matter what. Track you food and exercise and keep in touch daily with those who will motivate you in positive ways. I know it is hard and it will probably always be hard but it is worth it! You can do this!
    1774 days ago
  • -JAMES-
    Well carbohydrates are addictive. They help bears fatten up for winter. The bear is not doing long term planning.

    Send me a sparknote and I'll send back an invitation to a great low carb team. Exercise doesn't do a lot for weight loss, but eating right does. It is a matter of what eating "right" means, and in my opinion it isn't just less of the same things, it is eating different.

    Five years of low carb eating for me.
    1774 days ago
    Just because you haven't succeed doesn't mean you failed , it just means lessons learned. Some of us turn to food when life gets us down. Don't be so hard on yourself and don't give up. Think about what it is you really want and make changes
    1774 days ago
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    That little pest is just that a pest. U keep trying and that annoys ur pest but keep it up and u will whip that pest into submission. U deserve whatever it is u truly want for ur self. BELIEVE and TRUST YOU! Stay strong!!!
    1774 days ago
    Nothing comes easy to anyone..we just don't see their ur self first..make small goals..and see the magic..may be start with small change such as breakfast or ur favorite workout to do..mine is walk with my favorite music..
    1774 days ago
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