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Man problems

Monday, September 14, 2015

After almost 4 years, I find out that my significant other is on a dating site. He says he's on the site out of curiosity. But I see that he's"liking" some of the women's pictures. He's apologizing profusely. Any thoughts or advice. Should I end it? I know this is not about this program, but this hurts.
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  • NANA-JEAN
    Hi Susan,
    If you have a pastor in your life, I will encourage you to make an appointment with him with your husband.
    My first thought is there is NO excuse for a married man being on a dating website. Curious? Curiosity killed the cat!
    You have to work through your hurt and dig deep to know if your trust in him has shifted. Communicate clearly how hurt you are and what your expectations are, what you will tolerate and will not tolerate.
    I will keep you in my prayers.
    God Bless you!
    Jean emoticon (formerly known as life-faith/sparkjean)

    (just a side note: this has everything to do with your personal program of living a healthy life, that includes your mental and emotional well-being, so post anything you need support with and feel comfortable sharing)
    1157 days ago

    Comment edited on: 9/14/2015 2:01:04 PM
  • SKIMBRO
    Are you happy? What to you want going forward? Can you give it to you? Can you trust him again? What type of women is he "liking"? Do you fit their description? You have a lot to sort out...I pray that you make the right decision for YOU emoticon
    1157 days ago
  • THUNDADIVA
    Of couse he says its out of curosity......he won't tell the truth. He's trolling for someone to cheat with......plain and simple. If you allow this, it will continue. I mean, come on! 4 years?!?! You need to release yourself.
    1157 days ago
  • no profile photo SHORTSTORY2
    This would not be acceptable to me. I would give him a big decision to make; them or me! When a person makes a commitment to a person in marriage or sharing their life it a contract paper or none! If he is cheating now will it continue? You two need to have a serious talk!
    1157 days ago
  • JJMPLSMN
    I know this might be hard to hear, but I think you need to find another significant other. This is not respecting YOU. Time to find someone who will.

    Spark on.
    1157 days ago
  • DYANNE4293
    Very disrespectful!
    1157 days ago
  • SEXYNARCI
    Sorry to hear that. When every U need to make life changing decisions, I make a pros & cons list. I'm compelling honest with the list & let the list decide for me. Good luck.
    1157 days ago
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