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Missed an appointment today

Wednesday, July 01, 2015

I missed my appointment I had at the pain clinic this morning, due to another screwup at the Dial a Ride office. I called them yesterday morning, a whole 24 hours before my 11am appointment today, to schedule a pick up time. The dispatcher I spoke to told me they would have a bus at my house around 10am.

So, I set my alarm for 7:30am, to give myself plenty of time to eat breakfast and get myself ready. I went to bed at 9pm last night, and it didn't take me long to fall asleep, but I woke up around 12:30am to use the bathroom, and for some reason, I stayed wide awake for most of the rest of the night, so it was not easy to get up out of bed this morning, with having not enough sleep on top of the cancer-related fatigue I deal with even on the nights I do sleep. I was just looking forward to getting my appointment done with and coming home and taking a nap. Still, I pushed on, and made sure I was ready by 9:30am in case the bus was a little early, as it sometimes is.

I know sometimes during the 1st of the month, they are extra busy, and sometimes the buses are running a little late, but I gave them until 10:30am before I called to see what was going on. I was very upset when I was told I was not put on the schedule when I had called yesterday, and on top of that, the dispatcher I spoke to was kind of rude, and didn't even offer an apology. There was no way I could be sure of getting there on time, so I had to call and reschedule my appointment. The earliest available one was August 11th, so I took that one. Fortunately, today's appointment was just a followup visit to evaluate how my pain meds are working, nothing I needed to be seen urgently for, but it still upset me that I had to cancel it today because of someone else's mistake, especially when I started today not feeling good to begin with.

I still had to call to schedule a ride for my internist appointment tomorrow afternoon, but I had to wait about an hour til I had cooled down some. Fortunately, I got a different dispatcher when I called back, a nice one this time. I was nice about it, but I explained about what happened this morning and why I was upset about it. She understood, and she made sure my pickup for tomorrow was in the computer and on the schedule while she had me on the phone.

The last time they screwed up when I had called for a scheduled pickup was also a pain clinic appointment; that was several months ago. At that time, the mistake they made was putting down the wrong address for my home; they sent the bus to a completely different neighborhood. I still made it to that appointment that day, and they did not charge me for that trip, but I was still a few minutes late getting there that day.

Since it almost seems like I am "cursed" trying to take the bus to my pain clinic appointments, I decided that in the future, I should try to arrange for a friend to take me to those; even if they can't stay and wait with me (the waiting times are often long there), if I can at least get to my appointments on time, I don't mind calling the bus for a ride home. I have a friend already that said she can take me to my August appointment.
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  • SENIORSAXLADY
    Hi Shari, I am sorry that happened to you. Perhaps this was the way to let your friend take you to future appts. I know all about wanting to be independent, which is all well and good when things go well. But there comes a time when those of us that want to help our friends need to feel needed as well. Nothing makes me feel better than knowing I've been asked by another friend to help them out. It makes me feel that they not only trust me, but want my company as well.

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    Elayne
    1828 days ago
  • JUDITH316
    So emoticon you missed your appointment...Here's hoping you can get to the next one and a ride is available for you... emoticon
    1829 days ago
  • GABY1948
    Sorry you missed your appointment, Shari. emoticon
    1829 days ago
  • OPALMOON
    Dear Shari,
    I am so sorry you didn't have a good night's sleep and then had all this hassle to deal with. It is trying enough when one is well, let alone dealing with health issues. I am glad you had someone cooperative when you rang back. I think it's a wise idea to get a friend to take you to future appointments, and I am praying that this will work out each time for you, and that today's appointment went well...and that you have been able to get some much needed rest too. I had a night without any sleep last night due to pain that would not ease off in bot hip bones so I could not get comfortable. I know how draining it is, especially with fatigue issues involved as well, so I hope you can get some restful sleep.
    Take care dear friend - sending you big hugs and warm thoughts,
    Nattacia

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    1830 days ago
  • MOMMA_BEAR_69
    So sorry you missed your appointment due to someone else's inability to do their job properly. Hope you are feeling better and getting better rest and sleep.
    Have a safe and happy Fourth of July weekend.
    Prayers, blessings, love and hugs, Shari,
    Helen
    1830 days ago

    Comment edited on: 7/2/2015 11:11:23 AM
  • YELLOW09RED
    emoticon emoticon I hope you slept good last night. God bless you.

    1830 days ago
  • CHERYLHURT
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  • MCJULIEO
    So sorry that happened.... sounds like an alternative is in order..... isn't it great to have friends!!!
    1830 days ago
  • FLRED12
    Sorry you had such a stressful day today and missed your appointment. Hope everything works out OK tomorrow. emoticon
    1830 days ago
  • JANIEWWJD
    That is totally inexcusable on the part of the dispatcher!!! I think your friends are more dependable. God bless you,
    my friend. I pray you had a good day anyway!!!
    1830 days ago
  • SMILINGEYES2
    How frustrating. Sounds like you have a workable plan for the future.
    1830 days ago
  • LUCYCAN7
    Shari,I am so sorry to hear that I could not imagine how upset and hurt you
    were over someone elses negelence.Glad you do have a friend that will take
    you to your next appointment.Prayers,hugs and blessings! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1830 days ago
  • no profile photo CD4212235
    I am so sorry you missed your appointment today. I know how frustrating it is having to rely on buses, etc. for transportation. I have not driven very much these last few years. I am so lucky that I have my daughter and son drive me. I am very OCD about my appointments. I always go early. My daughter got that from me.

    Hopefully they won't mess up for you tomorrow. It was good you got a nice dispatcher and she listened when you told her about your concerns.

    I hope you are able to relax tonight and not let this missed appointment bother you.

    Take care and I hope all goes well tomorrow.

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    1830 days ago
  • no profile photo CD5707126
    I am so sorry that you had to miss your appointment. It seems like a good thing to have a friend take you. I know that when I go to those appointments that I need that extra support. I hope that you get some good rest tonight. emoticon
    1830 days ago
  • CELLOPLAYER1
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  • WESTERNSAGE
    You might want to put in a call to the supervisor at the bus service. You can start with really good words for the person who was nice and then mentioned the problem. You never know: if enough people call perhaps the rude person can be retrained. And don't worry about "getting her into trouble" She got herself into her own trouble by her own behavior.
    1830 days ago
  • PICKIE98
    So sorry that happened. Last year my Mom;'s facility scheduled Dial-A-Ride to get her to a doctor appointment and xrays in the same building across town. I could not take her since she refused to try and help herself getup and out of the wheelchair at that time. They picked her up on time, but as we were riding down the streets, the driver stopped at some woman's house and sat there waiting for her to come out. She had a standing order to get labs drawn at the hospital a few blocks away and he was going to turn into the hospital and wait for her to get it done and bring her back first!!

    I stopped him and told him that he better take mom first across town. HE told me knew his job, yadayada, worked for the company so many years...
    After his condescending tirade, I told him that mom had to get xrays BEFORE her appointment in an hour and he would be paying for the missed appointment with the specialist($250) if she missed it. HE shut up and took us there.

    You must get SO frustrated Shari!! I hope you get a better rest tonight.


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  • CRUISEGAL55
    Shari... what a day. I hope you calmed down enough to get that nap, you desperately needed. I'm glad you have a friend to take you, next month.
    Get your rest.
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    1830 days ago
  • PIMPINELLAN50
    Really sorry to to read about this Shari,and a rude dispatcher to boot!I too would feel upset..
    Good that your friend can take you to the August appointment!
    Wishing you a wonderful 4th of July Weekend! emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1830 days ago
  • LIVINGLOVINLIFE
    Sorry you missed your appointment. So glad it wasn't a real important one. I would have been so mad. I hope this doesn't happen again. Hugs PAt
    1830 days ago
  • MEWHENRYSMAMA
    OMG, Shari!
    So sorry! We have a saying in our household...Can't anything just ever just be easy??? Glad it all seems to have worked out...but you sure didn't need to be treated unkindly...how hard to say...Oh, I'm sorry! Jeesh!
    Hope you feel better and have a relaxing fourth of July weekend!
    Love & Hugs,
    Mary
    1830 days ago
  • SLIMMERJESSE
    What a shame. Sorry to hear this.
    1830 days ago
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