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Life = gone to hell

Saturday, December 13, 2014

So my life just imploded. My husband left me.

The reasons are... multitude. Suffice it to say I am not blameless; however, he is living in a situation that is not conducive to healthy... anything at the moment. It's only been a week, and my world is falling apart.

I'm not eating. I'm barely sleeping. I can barely function at all.

I've lost 8 lbs in the last week.

Not the good kind of weight loss, either.

I don't know what to do with my life. All I can ask from my dear Sparkfriends here, please pray. Pray that my husband will have clarity and peace, and return to his family. That he will commit to us working this out. That he will find himself in all of this.

Pray that I have peace as well, because I'm lost.
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  • JIBBIE49
    I hope it all works out for you, but my advice most often is to never stay in a rotten marriage. We women are much stronger than we think we are.
    1507 days ago
  • LIRIT331
    It's been a few weeks - how are things going? How are you holding up? *hug*
    1568 days ago
    Take care Lady.... Your inner strength will get you through this. I know it will be impossible to find right now...especially with the holidays here...but have faith in yourself. All the best for you and yours...
    1576 days ago
    I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm thinking of you and I have been through it. Try to eat, try to take care of your family. I hope and pray that you can get through this and work things out. Praying so hard for you and your family.
    1587 days ago
    Focus on you and your kids, that's where you have the most control of things. Letting this destroy you(and in turn, your children), is giving away YOUR power over yourself. In the end, we can ONLY truly have control over ourselves and that is tough enough. But until you get that right and strengthen up yourself, you'll never have the strength to help your children or your husband when he tries to come back into your world. My prayers are with you.
    1588 days ago
    Very sorry about the situation. Sending positive thoughts and prayers your way. emoticon
    1589 days ago
    I hope and pray that things will work out for you and your family. I hope that you have someone in your 'real life' who can help support you. Even talking with your Dr can be a big help.

    BIG hugs,
    Kris xxx
    1589 days ago
    praying for your family to pass through this turmoil. Find things to do with your friends and don't focus the conservation on his. offer to help at the veterans hospital to just visit them and that will cheer you.

    take one day at a time and rejoice in the small things like just getting out of the house and walking in the park or going to the library.

    talk to a stranger at the mall; pick an older person that seems to be sitting alone it will cheer you and them
    1589 days ago
    Sending you and your family many thoughts and prayers.
    1589 days ago
    Praying. I hope you have some good people surrounding you right now. What a hard place to be.
    1589 days ago
    Praying for you and your family. Be strong.
    1589 days ago
  • ELEKTRA0412
    I am so sorry. I am praying for you and your family.

    1589 days ago
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