please tell me your story
Sunday, August 10, 2014
i am so frustrated and resentful and here is why. i have asked this question many many times and need answers from any of you who will tell me. WHY does the sane person have to GO TO SELF HELP OR PSYCHIATRY to learn to COPE with the perpetrator?? what is up with that. why is the 'good person' otherwise called the ENABLER - asked to leave, find a new place to stay, up root their lives, perhaps children, pets etc.???? i totally resent being called an enabler - i have borne the brunt of many many times trying to get the perpetrator to STOP what they are doing - verbal abuse, alcohol and drugs - WHAT THE HELL DO I HAVE TO DO with this self destructive behaviour.
please tell me - and if you HAVE BENEFITED FROM IT LET ME KNOW HOW and IF THE PERP has stopped what they are doing - destructing themselves and all around them - let me know. so far i have not seen them change one damn hair on their heads.