Working on balance

Sunday, June 22, 2014

Hi. I've been gone awhile huh? It is true. I have been just "all up in it" for the past several months since I started my little freelance business. It is like being "new" at something all over again. I have had a really hard time balancing my tim, partly because every hour in my day equals money...if I let it.

Things have been good fortunately. Despite being new at writing for a living I am not at all new to the topic of food or writing recipes so there is some balance there. Once I figure out what a client needs from me I can generally do it but there still is a learning curve there. I have been surprised at how many people have need for a chef who can write a bit. This is good...except for awhile I was overwhelmed by how much work I was getting. This lead me to "disappear" for awhile. This caused my balance to get all out of whack. No more "me" time, no more Spark time, family was coming second and work first. I could see it happening but I need to be succeeding so I had to dig in for a few months and let other things go.

The good news is that in just a few months I have learned that I can pick and choose my jobs and that I don't need to take ones that don't feel right, partly because I have gotten a few good paying hourly jobs that keep my income going. I am going to keep on being picky now and guard my family time more closely.

I have not been exercising AT ALL. I have a new found appreciation for people who work at a desk and how hard it can be to find the time to get up and move a bit! I have been eating right though and this has helped me to maintain...not lose but to at least not gain.

We go away on vacation (happily my new income has helped make that possible) in two weeks and I had originally thought I would work while I was away but have now realised that I just want to be with my family. I have been winding up my projects and let my ongoing clients know that I will be unavailable. Except one...I was surprised to be contacted for a job writing about interior decorating of all things! I tried out this past week and if they want me to I will write some while I am away for them because it is soooo different than writing about food and I would love to keep this account. The hiring manager read some of my articles and liked my style and gave me a chance. I wrote about "yellow" of all things!

So, my goal is to Spark again and to focus on my family, myself AND my work. I intend to get myself in shape again. Working from home is not all that it is cracked up to be for me right now but I can see ...if I really focus on balance and making it more ideal for me...I think I can get there.

Here are a few links to some articles I have written:

About spices:

About desserts:

About a specialty drink menu:


I have written two articles for this magazine...this is the second and that is my drawing on the cover!

I posted this before but it is one of my recipe jobs:

When my article on "Yellow" gets posted I will give a link to that.

I know this is kind of a blah blah blah post but thanks for letting me get my thought out. I hope to catch up with my Spark friends soon!
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    Your articles are wonderful!! I am so happy that you have found this - it suits you to a "T"
    I have missed you!! Of course, I haven't been around here as much lately as I would like but I hope that will all change!!
    Take care my lovely friend!!
    2229 days ago
    This is NOT at all a blah blah blah post.
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    I read some of the spice article. It is amazing. You are creative and funny and feel like a friend. You are a natural. Killer drawing on the magazine. Have I mentioned that you are amazing!

    You can reach the balance. I think you did what you needed to do to get this started and ... IT WORKED! So glad you have established some great clients and have a vacation coming.
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    2232 days ago
    Hi Ronna! I'm so happy that your writing jobs are going well and that you are getting more work. Have a great vacation and enjoy your wonderful family!!
    2234 days ago
    Hey, that's great that you have found all that work, and are making it work too!

    I wonder if when you go on vacation, you can set yourself some kind of limit for the work then, so you don't miss out on that family really is important, and it's so easy to get lost in work, and find hours have disappeared!

    Thanks for sharing your stuff!
    2236 days ago
    I can't TELL you how excited I am that your freelance writing business is doing so well!!! I am thrilled and super excited because I love your writing so much I want to read every single thing you write, not only the Spark blogs. Even though I enjoy those so much I just want to read more. Hoping you post links to your pieces when available. So happy for your successes!!!!! emoticon
    2237 days ago
    Congratulations on all your success! Thanks for taking time to reconnect with us.

    Yeah, the downside of freelancing can be that you are at the mercy of your clients and if you say "no" there is the chance they will go elsewhere and not come back. But it sounds like you have quickly ramped up and are getting a handle on choosing the "plum" assignments and letting go of some others. Enjoy your vacation and thanks for the pictures you posted too.
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    2237 days ago
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    Good to hear from you again. Sounds like you have found your niche, hope all goes well. I have been rather lax at posting here lately. I'm just starting another 100 Day Challenge. Summer starts here....bring it on!!! emoticon
    2237 days ago
    I'm glad your new career is progressing so well. Congratulations, and I hope that you manage to keep everything balanced to suit yourself. Good show.
    2237 days ago
    I think I'm telepathic. I just yesterday went on whitezebra to look at some of your recipes and make sure you were okay! Some tasty stuff there BTW! So, it's great to hear that you are doing well and getting ready for a wonderful 2-week vacation. Enjoy it thoroughly!!
    All the best!

    2237 days ago
    I think it's awesome! You are making money doing what you love and have realized that balance is key! Enjoy your vacation... we'll be here ready to read about your adventures when you get back. In the mean time, I'll going to check out your stuff!
    2237 days ago
    Sorry I posted under your previous blog. Wanted to comment on your newest one. Love the writing you are doing. Great job!!!
    2237 days ago
    Sorry I posted under your previous blog. Wanted to comment on your newest one. Love the writing you are doing. Great job!!!
    2237 days ago
    Hey, we love your "blah blah blah!"

    I have missed you so much! It's great to hear that your business is going so well, and I love your articles! Beautifully written and informative.

    Please give Patrick and the kids big hugs for me, and give yourself one as well.
    2237 days ago
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