good Morning: when I put myself first, I can relax and focus on me. Last night we had some drama. DS ex said late at night that my son's baby was sick and she needed money immediately for medicine. My DS was alarmed and asked how do you get money to her this late. I told her I did not know. I turned it over to DS. I felt that this will always be a problem. Ex is vicious, lies and we are far away- not sure what the truth is. I felt that it is his daughter. He needs to learn how to handle it with ex. I turned over the situation. DS got frustrated but he handled it. He told ex to take baby to emergency ward; his insurance would pay for it. I got a text from DS this morning. Everything is ok..... I slept good. DS is learning to handle a crazy and vicious ex. Baby never went to ER - Ex just wanted money and using baby to get it. I am going to the gym soon.. Have a good day!