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Sunday, December 29, 2013

Ive been gone awhile but im back. I wanna finish what I started and that's to get down to 250lbs. A lot of crap has been going on lately and its stressing me out. I'm tired of people treating me like crap, im tired of being unappreciated. Im tired of keeping my mouth shut. At times I just feel like that life just out right sucks and I really have no purpose in life. Im trying to just give everything to God and let him take control but at times...It gets to me..Im just tired...

Can I ask yall some advice on a woman? Here is what happened. I was working in town for a couple of months with a friend. Anyway, we would stop by a certain restaurant a few times a week because it was my buddies favorite place to eat. Well I didn't really pay attention to any of the waitresses more then just place my order and say thank you. Anyway, my buddy started telling me he thinks a certain waitress was in to me..I was like yea..ok. So we started to request to be put in her section when we showed up to the restaurant. Well she just started to chit chat and to make along story short we became friends. Well one day I was saying something about facebook , she asked for my info to add me. I sent her a message and we talked over it for a week. She then told me that she didn't get on fb much and gave me her cell number to text her. She said she likes to text when she is bored. Well we text a little bit but nothing major. She randomly text me late at night, when we hold a text conversation it last for about 5 mins and then she stops texting, she never says bye or anything. I don't understand whats going on with this...Do any of you understand whats going on?
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    She likes you!! Sounds like a mixture of nervousness and shyness!! Good luck!!
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    Welcome back!

    I'm with the others just ask her out and see what happens at least you know where you stand and you can move on if necessary.

    All the best in 2014!
    2251 days ago
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    We don't know each other, but all you'll get is honestly from me: you need to ask her out on a proper date. Not over text. Go to her place of work or call her and ask her out properly. You are rapidly becoming just a "friend", in my opinion. It's time to buck up and make a move.

    Regarding the text - I think it's just part of texting etiquette...I don't say "goodbye" every time I'm done texting...it just fizzles out and gets picked back up at another time. I wouldn't take it personally. She may also be trying to let you know she's interested but doesn't want to seem needy. Plus, it may be working since it's kind of driving you nuts...maybe that's the point?
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    Welcome back. I am not good at relationships . I guess she texts while she is bored and when something else comes up she just lets it slide. You need to deicde if you want more than just friends with her or not maybe she is wondering why you arent asing her out ...it is all guessing until you know what you want.. Once you know it will make all this easier. If you want just nask her why she does that. Say it is ok you just want to know. Sorry i cant be more help.
    2251 days ago

    Comment edited on: 12/29/2013 9:05:10 PM
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