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Happy & Unforgettable Days I got to meet a SPECIAL Sparkfriend/family!/

Thursday, December 05, 2013

A few of you know I was on a journey the week before Thanksgiving to meet one of my Dearest Sparkfriends (FLPALM) aka Fran.
We met on Sparkpeople about 3 yrs ago and she has been such an inspiration/motivation to follow & a great friend!
We live 3,000 miles apart her East Coast me on the West Coast.
Her & her DH made plans to visit Oregon as it was on their bucket list,they love to travel and have fun!
Fran had sent me an email last June with their traveling plans and I was so excited at the thought of meeting this wonderful Sparkfriend who had became Spark/family to me so I told them about the Oregon Coast that we were planning on going there and could make it on Nov 22nd when they would be there(its about 3 hours from us) and the same drive for them from PDX (Portland airport) as I am on the Oregon/Washington border.
DH & I first met them at Chinook winds casino resort Friday morning and that was where I got my first BIG hug from the Sweetest lady ever and met her DH Paul he is as wonderful as her!
Fran's DH (Paul) & my DH (Trace) hit it off well these men were 2 of a kind (well with the exception of Fran's DH Paul he has a tremendous sense of humor which just made everything flow so smoothly.... at first I was kind of worried because Trace is not an easy person to get to know but him & Paul started talking and Fran & I were talking eager to know about each other, and Trace turns and says I like this guy ALOT him & I are gonna be friends!
We then parted and agreed to meet an hour later at Mo's for lunch we had a great lunch (Long lunch was absolutely wonderful!) and Fran shared her ways to track her food while on the road & some pictures of will see her secret blue notebook below (hehehe)but only the outside emoticon she really has her act together she is so true to her words "Making small changes that you can live with forever".
Fran & Paul are seriously wonderful friends I told her I really believe in that saying "A friend is a stranger that you just haven't met yet".
Now I don't go around friending every stranger I meet its like you just know when someone is special and there is something there & you trust your instincts to want to meet.
At some point in your life every friend you have is someone you never knew until you developed a bond and became friends.
When we were leaving Mo's for lunch outside her DH Paul told me to never give up that I looked fine and if I let stress and bad feelings about myself happen & if I don't believe in myself it will only hurt my progress and that I can Do it! Just to be patient and never give up!
He truly is Fran's number #1 fan he supports her 100% and these two have a love that shines like no other they are as down to earth and real as you could ever imagine!
We decided that we would meet the next morning at McDonald's for breakfast on there way back to driving to PDX so we met at 8:30 am and had breakfast and got a couple hour visit in before they hit the road.
I know its a repeat on words but Fran & Paul we want you to know Trace & I think the world of you two and we are going to take you up on your invite to stay with you in Vegas in your time share someday and as soon as Trace retires if not before we will visit Massachusetts and Thank you for welcoming us to your home to stay we feel honored that you two felt as comfortable as we did...Below are a few pictures I did leave out the one where Fran kissed me emoticon and her arm exercises at he casino...Lol.
Fran & I at Mo's for lunch

Fran & Paul (with Fran's lil blue book) emoticon

And this next picture Fran's DH Paul said this is "The spark Studs"...Lol...Paul on left & Trace on the right

Next morning pictures at McDonalds...Fran & I standing by our truck

Fran & Paul sporting the Daytona...Lol..and they look good!

You can just see what a fun loving couple they are and their zest for life...
And I enjoyed EVERYTHING they shared with us about them & how they met....So Cool!
This by far was my most memorable & happy time on the Oregon Coast.

Now on a side note heading home along the coast we decided to stop at my Dads house and stay a night as I hadn't seen him for over a year (I am Daddy's Baby) & he was soooo excited and happy to see me/us he didn't want to let us leave the next was hard to go I love him so much...we got home and the next week he sent me a flyer of a house for sale right next door to him emoticon he loves all 4 of his kids so much and is the BEST Dad Ever!
A picture of Dad & I below I love him so much emoticon

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    Brenda, I just got to read this and LOVE YOU!!!! xoxoxoxoxo
    76 days ago
    How wonderful for you both!! it's great to meet friends in person.
    2368 days ago
    2405 days ago
    Thanks for sharing the Joy of meeting Fran and Paul with the rest of us. Love the pictures. Love the support from the men. Love the humor. Love your dad story too!

    I guess you could say I love everything about you and this blog!!
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    2406 days ago
    so love your blog --- if I get your way -- -I'll see you too -- same -- if I get Fran's way!

    2409 days ago
    So glad you got to spend some time with them. That is always such special moments in life. emoticon emoticon emoticon
    2409 days ago
    Very cool indeed!
    And judging by the photos it looks like the weather was decent down at the coast!
    2409 days ago
    What a fabulous update! emoticon I am so glad everything went so smoothly and that you all hit it off instantly - even the Spark Studs!!! emoticon Trace cracks me up. You guys all look like you are having a blast hamming it up for the camera. Life is short. I am so happy you are grabbing all the fun and great times that you can. You sure needed a break from the stress and heartache you've been through recently. It was great that you got to see your Dad too. A year is to long to wait to visit. You tell Trace that I said he needs to take you to see your Dad at least TWO times every year!

    P.S. I am very nosy what is in Fran's blue book! The secret to her weight loss success?

    2409 days ago
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    Girl, I LOVED, no make that WE LOVED Every Moment with you BOTH! We just got back about 8 hours ago, and after playing catch up with the house stuff, started checking on my "Mail" and of course, MY FRIENDS!!!!!

    You are my Sista, Trace, our Brother, and Oregon has YOU BOTH as our fondest memory!!! Even though you are from Washington, YOU (Both) are the "Sparkle" on our mind, the Ornament on our Christmas Tree, and the LOVE in our Heart!!! I can't wait for the future, and all we have to share in!

    2409 days ago
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