Tail between my legs.

Monday, November 04, 2013

Three years ago, I walked away from this website and from my weight loss journey.
In those three years, I gained a few things-a husband, a beautiful daughter, and plenty of weight.
My little girl is seven months old and I don't think I've taken a single picture of myself with her, because I can't stand to see the evidence of how heavy I am.
The other day it caught up with me. My mom asked me to hold my daughter in her Halloween costume-she was the cutest little bee on the planet-and she inadvertently got me in the picture. Seeing the horrific quadruple chin hanging from my face was almost enough to make me never want to eat again.
For some strange reason, I managed to drop all of my pregnancy weight and am back at 385. Just saying that makes me sick-385.
I have high blood pressure, high cholesterol, knee pain, shortness of breath when walking, huge clothes, disgust at my body, and a baby who deserves a better example. I am honestly scared that my horrible habits are going to lead to an early demise and I might be taken from her prematurely.
She deserves better.
So do I.
So here I am.
I can't promise I'll be perfect.
I can't promise I won't have the occasional splurge.
I can't promise I'll be here every day, especially during December when the stress of my job will come within an inch of killing me.
But, I'm here.
It may take me time to re-acquaint myself with aspects of a healthy lifestyle-I certainly won't be out jogging tomorrow or anything, but I'm here.
It may take me time to lose enough weight to actually register on my scale, but I'm here.
It may take some sacrifice, but I'm here.
To those I abandoned and failed to support during your journeys-I'm sorry.
I failed you and I failed myself.
I cannot afford to fail my baby.
I'm here.
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    Do it for your lil' poopsie!

    2539 days ago
    Wow! You could have written this blog post about me. Similar stories, motivations, and restarting weights. I am completely in your corner. I know you can do it. If you are looking for an internet buddy to hold one another accountable, just let me know.
    2550 days ago
    Our kids are a great motivation for us to be healthy. Sometimes it just takes something like a picture to give us that moment that makes us realize it's time to get healthy. You can do it and we'll be there cheering you on! emoticon emoticon emoticon
    2550 days ago
    Your little girl is a great reason to get back on this journey ... but please remember to be as loving and kind to yourself as you are to your family! You're not disgusting or horrifying. You're a wonderful woman, wife, and mom who wants to be even better. And you can do it!
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    2550 days ago
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