10. To have sex comfortably and confidently

Wednesday, October 16, 2013

Ok, about to get a little bit 'TMI' here. If you easily cringe, abort mission, I said ABORT MISSION!

Ha I wonder how many people will be able to relate to this one?! Many, I think! Sex. An unimaginably pleasurable experience with an unfortunate helping of uncomfortable awkwardness (sometimes) Not that I have anyone to get jiggy with at this moment in time, but that's a whole other issue…

Anywho, the times when I have had the best sex have been when I feel completely 100% comfortable with myself. And yes, that means my body as well as just being able to completely let myself go. Who wants to be thinking about what your body looks like when you're having sex?! Not me, better things to be thinking about. But too many times, it has crept into my thoughts and completely ruined the 'moment' for me. Especially in, errrr, certain positions! Certain positions that happen to be my favourite positions, but which can bring about the most anxiety (go figure!). On top, I'm talking about being on top (this whole blog is TMI so why be coy about it now eh?!)

So yes, to cut a long story short, I want to be able to flaunt around in sexy lingerie and have great sex and not feel self-conscious about my body. That is all.
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    I love this. you say it so well.
    1758 days ago
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    I love this, lol! How so very true it is! You gotta love a pitch-black room!
    2475 days ago
    Agree! Embarrassing to have flabs all over! Completely agree! Maybe TMI but it's things like this that keep us working out.
    2597 days ago
    I know this feeling so well. I was uncomfortable with my body when I was at my highest weight. I have lost 78 pounds and now I am uncomfortable with the loose skin. I need to get over it and move on and be proud of my body and consider it strong and wonderful instead of flabby. Good luck.
    2597 days ago
    Lol I was actually just talking about this last night with a Sparkfriend. I don't have anyone to get jiggy with either, but even if I did, I wouldn't want to. I spend the whole time thinking about what all my fat looks like bouncing and jiggling around and how they are probably repulsed and then I think I'm going to crush them or smother them and.. It never ends up as a pleasurable experience. You're not alone on this thinking!
    2598 days ago
    Totally relate.
    2598 days ago
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