10. To have sex comfortably and confidently
Wednesday, October 16, 2013
Ok, about to get a little bit 'TMI' here. If you easily cringe, abort mission, I said ABORT MISSION!
Ha I wonder how many people will be able to relate to this one?! Many, I think! Sex. An unimaginably pleasurable experience with an unfortunate helping of uncomfortable awkwardness (sometimes) Not that I have anyone to get jiggy with at this moment in time, but that's a whole other issue…
Anywho, the times when I have had the best sex have been when I feel completely 100% comfortable with myself. And yes, that means my body as well as just being able to completely let myself go. Who wants to be thinking about what your body looks like when you're having sex?! Not me, better things to be thinking about. But too many times, it has crept into my thoughts and completely ruined the 'moment' for me. Especially in, errrr, certain positions! Certain positions that happen to be my favourite positions, but which can bring about the most anxiety (go figure!). On top, I'm talking about being on top (this whole blog is TMI so why be coy about it now eh?!)
So yes, to cut a long story short, I want to be able to flaunt around in sexy lingerie and have great sex and not feel self-conscious about my body. That is all.