I had this issue with people telling me I would be so beautiful if I lost weight, or telling me I've gotten so big their arms cant reach around me not to mention I've been called a fat a$$ countless times. It's hard to deal with but you have to push through it and show them you are above their negativity. 1648 days ago
Sounds like she is projecting her own feelings of inadequacy onto you and perhaps in some twisted way believes that if she acts like this to you that you will miraculously change overnight. Some people. 1648 days ago
Just because she gave birth to you doesn't mean you have any responsibility towards her.
I'm sure from what she said to you that she's said and done much worse to you in the past.
Cut her out of your life. If you're thinking that's not easy? Yes it is! You don't need to explain yourself to her. Do you want your little boy or any future children you might have growing up around such poison and hatred?
BABE is absolutely correct when she said that it's obvious your mother has huge issues.
I'm also sorry that you're in this situation but YOU are in charge of your life.
That is not motivation and if anyone thinks so therein lies the problem.
It's pretty obvious your mom has some deep seated issues of her own. I think you need to try and separate yourself from anyone who would make a comment like that and surround yourself with positive energy. 1648 days ago
I guess I can safely say her name is not Theresa!! What a gem. I bet you are as proud of her as she is of you. Shame on her, and I hope you are grown up enough to NOT value her opinion. BTW, SHE gave you your genes...
Consider the source and step around that bully,, continue on with your life.. 1648 days ago