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Planting Seeds

Thursday, September 19, 2013

A couple weeks ago Levi got the letter packet I sent with letters to numerous family members - aunts, uncles, cousins, siblings, nieces, nephews...When I called him he said they arrived and, "You've written to just about every single relation, most of whom really don't give us the time of day, and yet there's no letter for Josue or Sarai [his children]."

Me with my step -BONUS - kids, 2012

I was nonplussed! I was certain i had checked every name on my list as I wrote. I suggested I may have been distracted, and missed them. I felt very bad about it, and the next day wrote them each a full 2 page letter (both sides of 2 sheets) and mailed them post haste.
Another time I called the house and spoke to my father-ini-law, and he also commented on how I wrote to so many members of the extended family, and wondered about it.
I explained, it's not a matter of obligation. But I'd MET these people, and through Levi am RELATED to them, and it is no hardship for me to write - and it is part of my "gift", my talent, to write letters - and in so doing I am actually sowing seeds of God's love.

I grew up before computers and instant-messaging and Skype and all that. My erudite parents were also letter-writers. My mom encouraged my sisters and me to write thank you's to our grandparents for Christmas and birthday gifts. In school we learned how to compose various kinds of letters. In high school I had some 30 penpals in various countries.

God gives us all gifts and talents. Some are natural, some spiritual (Romans 12, 1 Cor. 12, Eph. 4...) While I don't receive correspondence in kind (except from my first spiritual son, a peruvian who lives in Brazil and still sends me cards for mother's day and Christmas, and writes letters) that does not determine to whom I write. In a way, I think it's like God perfecting HIS love in me. How often does He reach out to, speak to us, through various ways and means? How often does He express His love to us - and WE fail to respond? yet He keeps loving on us! I do get feedback, when I visit, and they tell me how much the letters mean to them, how often they arrive at a strategic moment, when they're at a low moment and need a little encouragement. " We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is ... to encourage, then give encouragement..." (Rom. 12:6, 7) Doesn't say **I** have to get anything in return. Doesn't say it's conditional on the merits of the person receiving the encouragement - just as my receiving God's love is without condition, thank God! Family, especially in Christ, comes first...but...Love is one of those things, that the more you give, the more you have. He enlarges my heart. I'm AMAZED at the capacity I have to love! (Not that there are not challenges...)

And so...I keep the Post Office in business!
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    I drew a picture for a horse magazine when I was a teenager and though they didn't print the picture, they printed my letter. I think I had 59 pen pals and wrote an average of 9 letters a day. I am glad my parents covered the postage to mail them.

    So much is changing. People don't bother to spell correctly and don't write on paper.
    1661 days ago
    So glad to hear that you continue using the blessings God has given you!!! WAY TO GO on keeping the post office in business also.
    What a great picture of you and your Bonus kids!!!
    I love receiving letters and especially reading them over again.
    You are an AMAZING lady!!!
    Continued blessings and hugs,
    1671 days ago
    You are SO right - we've all been given different gifts, and the ability to put our thoughts to paper has become especially rare! I cherish being able to look back over letters my grandparents wrote and somehow doubt my grandchildren will feel the same way about reading my e-mails....
    1673 days ago
    I remember well the days when I was an avid letter writer. Seems like I'm led to share different talents now.
    1673 days ago
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