where's the KARMA (bad for deserved ones)

Saturday, August 10, 2013

i say this tongue in cheek - but there is a grain of truth in my annoyance - some times that grain can produce a pearl like with an oyster - right?
here it is - certain friends, enemies and relatives i have had to deal with over the years - seem to get away the most nasty eating and drinking habits but they dane to 'lecture me on my plate' . i have written some what about this before - but it is so arrogant - beyond arrogance - it deserves a PIE IN THE FACE. oooooh would i love to do that.
here am i - (shine my halo) picking and choosing as carefully as possible and out of those picks i take such a minimal amount - but still the 'comments and snide advice ' keeps right on coming.
i have avoided many get togethers because i just don't enjoy being there - but now i have people on my back about ME HAVING AN END OF SUMMER thing.
when i truthfully say i am exhausted - they insist and say oh we will make stuff and it will do you good.
how do they know what will do me good? what i need is peace and quiet - what i need is for my daughter to be 100% and back into her normal life - what i need is to find the dollars to replace what i just had to lay out for a leaking roof -
WHAT I NEED is a place to go on another planet!!!!! have a great weekend all!
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    I've learned to thin out the herd of people that are negative and steal from my soul. At 53, I have little contact with female friends - while I'd like to have more, I go back to remembering how caustic some of them were/are and am very glad for my solitude. I even have to back off of my kids from time to time because I feel like they suck the life out of me. Or, rather, I let them suck the life out of me.

    Are these "friends"/family members that criticize what you eat overweight themselves. Losing weight if very threatening to others.

    Good luck
    2045 days ago

    Comment edited on: 8/13/2013 6:26:51 PM
    I hope things look up for you soon. Take care and do what you want not what others want.
    2046 days ago
    Take care of yourself, and part of that is being able to say no. It is one of my issues too. That is why I am a semi-recluse. Good luck figuring out the nasties. H bugs.
    2047 days ago
    Can you *limit your contact* with those $#!@#s? Can't hurt - can only don't need to spend your days being miserable due to the actions of *other people*! Spend your precious time with those you truly deem worthy of your presence!
    2047 days ago
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