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Saturday, August 10, 2013

i say this tongue in cheek - but there is a grain of truth in my annoyance - some times that grain can produce a pearl like with an oyster - right?
here it is - certain friends, enemies and relatives i have had to deal with over the years - seem to get away the most nasty eating and drinking habits but they dane to 'lecture me on my plate' . i have written some what about this before - but it is so arrogant - beyond arrogance - it deserves a PIE IN THE FACE. oooooh would i love to do that.
here am i - (shine my halo) picking and choosing as carefully as possible and out of those picks i take such a minimal amount - but still the 'comments and snide advice ' keeps right on coming.
i have avoided many get togethers because i just don't enjoy being there - but now i have people on my back about ME HAVING AN END OF SUMMER thing.
when i truthfully say i am exhausted - they insist and say oh we will make stuff and it will do you good.
how do they know what will do me good? what i need is peace and quiet - what i need is for my daughter to be 100% and back into her normal life - what i need is to find the dollars to replace what i just had to lay out for a leaking roof -
WHAT I NEED is a place to go on another planet!!!!! have a great weekend all!
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  • BELLAMEMAW
    I've learned to thin out the herd of people that are negative and steal from my soul. At 53, I have little contact with female friends - while I'd like to have more, I go back to remembering how caustic some of them were/are and am very glad for my solitude. I even have to back off of my kids from time to time because I feel like they suck the life out of me. Or, rather, I let them suck the life out of me.

    Are these "friends"/family members that criticize what you eat overweight themselves. Losing weight if very threatening to others.

    Good luck
    1895 days ago

    Comment edited on: 8/13/2013 6:26:51 PM
  • RAINBOWFALLS
    I hope things look up for you soon. Take care and do what you want not what others want.
    1896 days ago
  • KITTYCAT64
    Take care of yourself, and part of that is being able to say no. It is one of my issues too. That is why I am a semi-recluse. Good luck figuring out the nasties. H bugs.
    1897 days ago
  • RASPBERRY56
    Can you *limit your contact* with those $#!@#s? Can't hurt - can only help.........you don't need to spend your days being miserable due to the actions of *other people*! Spend your precious time with those you truly deem worthy of your presence!
    1897 days ago
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