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How I Did It....

Monday, July 22, 2013

People ask me how I successfully stayed faithful to my program, Eat to Live, during these last five months--particularly during the transitioning from a SAD diet to a highly restrictive plant-based diet that so many struggle with.

The simple answer is: I made a commitment to myself: To my health. To my future. To ME.

Keep in mind that people are not TRULY committed to something until their actions and choices consistently back up their "intentions" (wishful thinking and impressive mission statements do not make anything happen).

So I had to envision what my commitment was going to look like in the form of my own actions and choices, and hold a picture in my head of The Map (where I am, where I want to go, and how to get there).

To that end, during the weeks I was transitioning--before I began my Eat to Live "Six Week Challenge"--I gathered information and ideas by reading blogs, watching videos, and interacting online with others who had already started doing E2L.

It did not take long for me to figure out that people eating even "just a little bit" of off-plan foods during their Six Week Challenge were unlikely to get the same amazing results as those who followed it "perfectly".

They also never truly detox, or win the battle over food addictions (giving in to them), so it is an ongoing struggle throughout their first six weeks and even after.

So I meditated upon the notion of committing for six weeks to “100% by the book,” and how that would look.

However, I still had "Cop Out Me" to contend with.

"Cop Out Me" is that part of me who wants things to be easy and effortless, with no real sacrifices. "It's all just too hard, too much, it will take too long." That part of me wants to eat off-plan foods because they smell and/or taste good (or--more often than not--satisfy some emotional need in a superficial, immediate-gratification sort of way).

That part of me wants to pretend the high calorie, low nutrient foods snuck in here and there don't really count, aren't really going to matter in the long run... or are just too difficult give up.

(This is why I track every EVERY single thing I put into my mouth, every single day, to keep myself honest and aware of the choices I'm making, good or bad... because I have a lifetime habit of kidding myself when it comes to food.)

Once I decided I could do this for six weeks, I did not allow that "Cop Out Me" to take over again even when she screamed and threw temper tantrums. Even when she grabbed a big handful of something and shoved it in my mouth when I wasn't paying attention. I just spit it back out, reminding myself that the Six Week Challenge was a short-term commitment to myself and my health, to SEE ... just to see... what amazing results might be in store for me, too, if only I remained true to myself. And to Dr Fuhrman's nutritional advice.

No one was forcing this upon me. It was a commitment to myself: The Real Me.

"Real Me" sees the long-term big picture of my Life, not just my immediate wants, needs, gains, and losses.

"Real Me" recognizes that the choices I make today are, in fact, SHAPING my future. In order to get the future I want, I need to make the appropriate choices to take me there, not the choices that left me dangling from a cliff for more than a decade!

"Real Me" puts my health and true happiness before everything else, including financial concerns and/or what smells so good and tempting at the moment. Or sad, bored, lonely, anxious, antsy I'm feeling (because feelings are fleeting things and not something to base life or health decisions upon).

"Real Me" recognizes that the key to happiness is radiant good health; because without one's health, nothing else in life is as enjoyable.

And the fact that I've been abusing my body for so long is the VERY reason it is SO important that I give it excellent nutrition and maintenance from here on out. Because if I do not....

"Cop Out Me" already robbed me of more than a fifteen years of my life, health, and sense of well-being. Doing things "Cop Out Me's" way nearly destroyed me.

So when, as I move through this new lifestyle that I began five months ago, I realize that "Cop Out Me" is fighting for control again, "Real Me" steps forward and cuts her off.

That’s the dance.

My commitment keeps me strong, until I have a period of temptation, or a bad day, or a series of poor choices that reawaken addiction behaviors... then Real Me needs to step in and contend with Cop Out Me.

Because my HEALTH and my FUTURE are far more important to me than whatever might stumble across my path and trigger an “I want” response!

Besides, I feel so wonderful when I’m eating 100% by the book... and drained when I eat things that are detrimental to my health. It is easy, in that sense, to revert to the healthier options.

And to make choices that shape the tomorrow I WANT to be living.

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    your blog is very inspiring! keep up the good work! amazing! emoticon emoticon
    1763 days ago
    What a encouraging blog!! Thank you for posting it. You are a true example of great successes in ETL challenge and the life challenges. You've won the battle and still doing great. So proud of you. And so true about what you posted in here. I've just completed my first run of ETL 6 weeks plan and just posted blog about it. And i did great on my challenge. But same time, I felt I could done better. I shall follow your shadow and discover more of " true me". (*^^*)
    1763 days ago
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    1763 days ago
    Super helpful - thanks for the post! Great insights here .... emoticon
    1763 days ago
  • 55WALKER
    "Keep in mind that people are not TRULY committed to something until their actions and choices consistently back up their "intentions" (wishful thinking and impressive mission statements do not make anything happen)."

    1763 days ago
    Great! Thanks for sharing because a lot of people can learn from your blog. For people who are obese there will always be this struggle. I hate it when people say they fell of the wagon, because it is their life they are talking about and there simply no wagon. What it is, is delayed health. More chance for illnesses, lack of energy and vitality and a shorter life span. Congrats with your mental agility to take on Cop out me as so often that is just another bad habit. I am so proud of what you have achieved.
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    1764 days ago
    Sounds great if it's working for you. Glenn
    1764 days ago
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