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Angry Emails and Sleeping Pills Don't Mix

Saturday, July 13, 2013

I normally try not to let things get me upset or get me down but last night was my tipping point. I just discovered after talking with my sister I am not invited to my nieces wedding. It came as a complete shock to me. After all my parents are invited and my brother is officiating the service. When I heard about the wedding my mom kept asking me if I had received my invitation yet. I thought because I moved mine was late in coming.

When I called my sister to find out if my invitation was missing or was I just not invited the truth came out. She said it was numbers thing and that is why I was not invited. I can accept her not inviting me because of numbers. What hurts is that fact she did not tell me herself. Meanwhile I had been thinking all long everything was fine and the whole family would be attending the wedding.

I got off the phone and I was angry and very hurt. I took my sleeping pills which I have to take every night. I was trying to send emails and I was trying to delete family members off facebook once my meds kicked in. None of it worked I could not focus enough to carry through. I think, did end up sending a general post to all my friends of facebook that I did not want to do. oops

Now that is morning, I am still very hurt over how my sister did not handle the situation and I sent her an email to tell her that. I am resisting the urge to call my Dad and tell him I am not going because my parents think I am attending. My sister can tell them because if I do it will look like I am whining to our Dad.

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    I'd think that aunts and uncles are pretty important. Maybe they could have left out a friend that they don't see as much to let you attend. It sucks that family can hurt you so much more than other people though. Hope things get better for you!
    1776 days ago
  • SISSIE21
    I am so sorry. Families have the power to bring much love or much hurt. This seems really unfair to me. Perhaps you could talk to your sister once again and find out why she handled it the way she did.
    Good luck! emoticon
    1776 days ago
    That stinks! Numbers shouldn't matter when one if family. It isn't like you are 7th cousin.
    1777 days ago
    That's so petty of them! I'm sorry they're acting this way; it's childish. Try to find some enjoyment elsewhere to nurture your much-deserved happiness. Let your sister deal with their nonsense; I'm sorry this happened to you :(
    1777 days ago
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