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Friday, June 21, 2013

I have recently started dating. And it seems to me I am going to be single forever. The guys I am interested in aren't interested in me, and the ones I'm not interested in dating are interested in me. Does that make sense? Its so very frustrating. Here I am trying to turn ny life around and make myself my healthy and happy and I appear to be the woman that only attracts men that are unhealthy physically or mentally. I am really tired of being single. I have always been more attracted to guys that are thinner or somewhat athletic. But for some reason I am the girl that only attracts guys that are like 300 lbs. Ugh. I know this seems totally superficial and mean. I feel terrible. Especially because I am overlooked because of my weight. Just more motivation to get to the gym this morning. Tirrd of being the fat girl.
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    Have you thought about joining groups for exercising? Maybe you'd run into a guy who is in the same place physically as you. I feel like I'm that girl too... I'm engaged, but when I was single, I always felt that way. And truthfully, my fiance is overweight and I love him. But I understand. There's something deflating about only attracting overweight guys. It's not that you're shallow... it just makes me you feel kind of bad. Like it's a reflection on you. Maybe you're giving off the vibe that you are more open to the overweight guys and shy around the athletic guys? I always wondered if I'd relaxed more if I would have met different guys. Not that I'd trade my fiance for anything, I just understand how you feel.
    1827 days ago
    Guys are attracted to strong women! Girl, sounds like you are going in the right direction! Date around...sometimes those chubby guys can be your knight in shining armor!
    1828 days ago
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    Fat girl??? Where??? I see a strong, smiley woman in that profile picture! And I hear it in her voice when she says she wants to be healthier.

    You are trying too hard! Try focusing on you and that guy will approach you! Get in that gym and do your thing and you just might be surprised what walks up to you in a few days or few weeks and says Hey...How you doin?

    You gotta put your health and yourself first and the rest will just happen! :-)
    1828 days ago
    My grandma used to say - don't look for the man when it is meant to happen he'll find you. so with that said I think you should concentrate on you and get to your healthy self and when it is time love will come your way when you least expect it.

    I would say just put yourself first and the rest will fall into place. emoticon

    1828 days ago
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