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Childish acts done by adults...........

Sunday, April 07, 2013

It has been quite day!! So my ex mother in law approaches one of my friends and tells her how mean I am. It finalized my decision to cut all ties with the ex. Sad but true since he is the one that wanted a friendship so bad he is going to let his parents ruin that also. I hope one day he doesnt have to live the rest of his life with regrets of what could have been for us without his parents interference. emoticon

I fell out of the back of the pick up when I went to the dump. I was jumping out when I got done pushing the stuff out and the guy that runs the dump has a new puppy that ran right under where I was jumping so I tried to avoid him and fell flat on my back on the asphalt............oh its gonna hurt tomorrow!!! emoticon
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    Before you totally sever the ties, speak to him and explain about the hurtful comments his mother has made. Give him the chance to either keep your friendship open or, if he defends his mother totally, tell him where you stand. Ultimately, do what is best for you and your happiness.

    Hope the bruises aren't too bad. Rub some tiger balm in where it hurts.
    1896 days ago
    Dang - that's a bummer. I've missed reading a couple of your blogs prior to this but the feeling I got was that things have been tough for you again lately and I'm so sorry for that. Be strong and assertive! You control your life and your happiness - don't put up with unneeded b.s. Love ya! emoticon
    1897 days ago
    I'm sorry you had such a bad day.
    1897 days ago
  • 02SERENE
    I hope you have some ointment to help you with the fall. Ouch! emoticon

    Its not easy cutting ties, doing so helps create room for more positives in your life.
    And more calmness rather than the soap opera.
    1897 days ago
  • MJ7DM33
    Take care!
    1897 days ago
  • LUANN7
    sorry to hear about your ex but it is hard to stay friends with them anyway all those old fights and memories surface now and then but my ex is gone now so it much more peaceful. All he managed to do was break his daughters hearts.They were 29 and 30 when he killed himself but he didnt leave a note or even 19cents to either of them talk about selfish. Hope you feel ok tomorrow.Lu:)
    1897 days ago
  • ZIGGY122
    OMG! sorry to hear about your fall, hopefully, it won't be too bad tomorrow just take it easy for a couple of days.
    As far as your ex and his mother, I'd just cut the ties, completely.
    1897 days ago
    So you allow the MIL to have her way? If the 2 adults want to ha a friendly rapport, then MIL has no say.

    It is up to the grownups to set boundaries. Otherwise cut your lose.

    I hope you body eases from the fall! emoticon
    1897 days ago
    Bummer about the fall, and the 'friendship' with the ex.

    Maybe a soak in a hot tub with epsons salts will help sooth both . . . .
    1897 days ago
    Sorry about the ex thing. I know you cared about him but he's got to care about you more.
    Hope you are all right. That sounds like that hurt a lot. Hope you take a hot bath before you go to bed tonight to loosen those muscles that or a very hot shower. emoticon
    1897 days ago
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