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Sunday, March 24, 2013

Believe it or not, I am fighting with my own clothes. My size is so different from normal ones I will never afford to buy a dress, let alone finding anthing graceful that fits.
I am stuck in jeans and jumpers, Tshirts in the summer and little else-maybe trainers?
Now I'm bored to death but I just can't find a solutions...whatever I try on makes me feel fatter, or maybe it's me - I just don't feel at ease.
Canceling one's identity seems sometimes the only way to react to constant fights with our scale.
Sorry to tell you, I might have won some of my fights for losing but I haven't solved my problem with my mirror. emoticon
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    I understand exactly how you are feeling as I have same
    problem too. I go and shop at charity shops now as I hate
    going into the shops. At least if I get home and hate it,
    I can re-donate and don't feel as though I have spent a
    fortune. We have to learn to like ourselves but that is
    easier said than done. Thinking of you. emoticon
    1852 days ago
    1853 days ago
    No solutions here, but a great deal of empathy. The dressing room has been the fast track to tears for me for many years.
    1854 days ago
  • KALLIE1958AR
    Maybe learn to sew ? .. then you can altar as needed ? Pray you find a solution .. but at least you are at a healthy emoticon weight right ..
    1854 days ago
    Wish I could help dear friend but I can offer encouragement!!!

    Hang in there
    1854 days ago
    My grandmother said once the secret to a happy life is to figure out what style you look good in and stick with it. Make sure you up date the colors, patterns and fun extras.

    Remember the stars on the red carpet get help picking what they wear and they too can end up not looking good. The answer isn't money or the shape of your body it is finding you! emoticon
    1854 days ago
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