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The Process of Success

Saturday, March 23, 2013

I did well yesterday.
UNtil I was standing in the Chinese restaurant placing our order and what came out of my mouth was not "steamed vegetables and brown rice" but "sweet and sour chicken combo plate" I don't know how it happened. There was no forethought except maybe something like "#$% it".....
And of course, once I"d made the tactical error, I went with it....and ate what I'd ordered. It was good.
But it wasn't worth the sick feeling afterward. And the sick taste of failure that it left in my mouth.
I know.
Today is new day
But how many days of failure can I string together before the scale bites me back? Honestly, I think I've reached that limit. In fact, it may be too late.

So I'm going back to read my blog of two days reawaken that spark. I'm getting my butt downstairs to exercise. Now, I'm greatly disappointed about this, but I will be unable to do WATP because I think last night I broke a bone in my arthritic foot. I bashed my foot (with my toes curled under) into a wall and a screaming pain ensued. It still is really hurting a lot this morning. The pain is in my big toe and the joint where it connects to my foot. That's really all I needed

Funny.. I"m listening to the song, Start Over by the AFters. Here is the link to it on Youtube. The words are so so appropriate.

So anyway. Back to my foot. I think I will be condemned to using the bike for the next some days until my foot heals.

I was reading a blog by CATHOLICCORGI based on a book by Ralph Marston(????) she was reading. It said. "Love the effort" ...I've been loving the "idea" but not the effort that I need to make in order for that idea to come true. I have failed where the rubber meets the road. And don't scold me for saying "I've failed"....because I HAVE. However failure is not a permanent state of being. It is very much part of the flux of life. One must ask then, if success is a destination....or a process. I will let you be the judge of that but for myself, I believe that success is a process and it is one that INCORPORATES failure and dealing with it.

So it is part of my success to have failed....because in dealing with the failure I learn and I pick myself up and try again. I persist. There is that saying, "It is not how many times we fall, but how many times we get up that counts." That, friends, is the process of success.

So, I'm off today, to add to my success by getting up and dusting myself off, yet one more time.
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  • no profile photo CD11085420
    Ouch, Cynthia!
    I'm just coasting through life right now. I agree success is a process. Life IS a process! We are going through life, one day at a time, and this moment is what counts.
    I made it through coming off the Cymbalta. None at all since last Sunday, and the pain has returned in full force. I am very grateful I can "feel" the pain. No, it's not pleasant, but I am accepting it for today. When I move around a bit, it will be better. My head is clear and I care about SPARKing THIS day to the best of my ability.
    Ralph Marston has a web site called The Daily Motivator. I read it every morning. It always speaks to me...
    May you have a blessed Easter Week!
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    We've a new day! Let's unwrap the gift!
    2905 days ago
  • no profile photo CD5645667
    Way to go Cyn . Sorry about the foot hope it heals soon love xx glad you are sounding more positive .
    Hugs Susie xxx emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon
    2906 days ago
  • no profile photo CD10895053
    I guess we have to admit it that there are going to be some potholes in the road as well as smooth sailing! Rats anyway, huh?! With the pothole giving you quite a shaking, you'll just steady yourself once again and get smooth sailing again. emoticon emoticon
    2906 days ago
    SNS: exactly my point. Success is a process that incorporates failure.
    2906 days ago
  • SNS1968
    One bad (or good) meal does not make or break a diet.

    2906 days ago
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