I think I have a Bully

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

There is a lady that goes to the same church that I go too. Well she doesn't like me and she has made that known to many people at church. My Mom works at a school that's ran by our church. The woman that dislikes me is now on the school board. The reason why the lady doesn't like me is because I had a little run in with her kids a few months ago. Her youngest told me to go screw myself, I told the little boy that he cant talk to me that way and then i went to inform his mom about what he said and then she starts attacking me telling me that im not a man, I need to grow up..Etc. Well today my mom took a sick day from work because she has the flu. My Mom asked me to take a few things to the school for her so I did. While I was there the Principle asked if she could talk to me in her office. I went to her office and thats when she informed me that a complaint has been issued to the school about me from the school board member. The Principle then informed me that she was told that I attacked this lady and her kids and that she wants me banned from the school. She then informed me that she has more then one complaint about me from the same lady. She told me that she would never "ban" me from the school and that she knows me well enough to know that I would never attack anyone. She was just telling me this for me so I would be careful around this woman and her kids. The last time I spoke to the lady that dislikes me, we were suppose to be cool again. She gave me a hug and her kids gave me a hug. Well, its looks like she isnt done with me. I'm nervous that she going to take this hate that she has for me out on my mom's job.
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    Sorry to hear about this lady. It's a tough situation to be in. I had a similar situation. Fortunately I don't talk to her, her kids or her ex husband any more. It saddens me that she used to think of me as the daughter she never had (she has two sons) and then she left her husband because he has MS for another guy and she changed for the worst and started saying crap that was true about me to her sons. I'm not sure why me and her ex husband aren't speaking any more. None of them know that I moved or changed my number.
    2189 days ago
    Whatever you do dont have a private conversation with the woman. Have it in the principal's office so you have a witness on your side. I hate that you have to deal with this crap in adult life,but if it makes you feel any better,I believe we all do in some way,because folks are mistreated themselves and never learn how to deal with it. Remember you have friends here. I know you and I have'nt talked in a while(if you even recall my name) but I am here for you. emoticon
    2194 days ago
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    James Kevin:

    It definitely sounds like this woman has a social problem and sadly is bringing her family up to follow her state of mind.

    You will not change her frame of mind, so I suggest that you take the high road and dissociate yourself from her as much as possible.

    Just continue to conduct yourself in the manner you were brought up be.

    2194 days ago
  • THOMS1
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    2194 days ago
    I think so too. Can you think of anything that may have started this lady's dislike for you? Sometimes we make a thoughtless remark and do not realize it hurt someone's feelings or made them feel insecure or disrespected. Have you tried talking to her directly, asking why she is upset with you?

    Probably the best advice anyone can give you is to pray about the situation! God tells us in the book of James that if any one lacks wisdom, he should ask God to give it. We are told to live in peace with one another, and so demonstrate the love of God. I know that if you ask, He will answer!

    Keep the faith!!

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    2194 days ago
  • MISSB8604
    This woman sounds seriously crazy and yes, I would say that you have a bully. Make sure you let everyone in power know what the situation is because this woman will certainly try to get you removed from the school (as she has already tried to do). Don’t be nervous, just be the good person you are and watch your back around this woman as she brings nothing but negativity to your life. Wish her the best and live the best life that you can. Please update us on how this is going.

    You’re not alone, your SparkFriends are here. Stay positive!

    2194 days ago
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