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What can I approve on?

Wednesday, March 06, 2013

Wow, that is a loaded question!!!!!! There are so many things I can improve on but I will keep this related to my healthy habit. I guess what I need to improve on is giving others opinions and feelings more importance then mine. I need to stop letting other peoples moods dictate how I feel about myself. Letting these things happen usually means I start feeling bad about myself, which means I want to stuff down the bad feelings with food. I guess I can sun this up by saying ...... I simple need to love myself more.
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    Hugs to you Mo!! I think you are a very kind and loving friend to my recommendation is that you show the same love and kindness to yourself that you show to others here!!! I agree that one of the best ways to take care of our selves is to love ourselves!! You can do this!! Smiles Barb
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  • LYNCHD05
    I can so relate to what you are saying. How do we draw the line between caring about others and how they feel to caring about us more. A very fine line and a very hard to accomplish. You are an amazing bear and I know you can do it.
    2994 days ago
    All you need is a little nudge in the right direction. You are an awsome bear you care so much about every one else. Now is time to start loving yourself a little more because you are worth it.
    2994 days ago
    Keep forgiving yourself for what has gone before; you are great at giving encouragement to others, so why not yourself?

    You then make the hard choices, and put one foot in front of the other and carry out your decisions.

    But don't beat up on yourself for if you feel you've slipped up emoticon
    2994 days ago
    Since other people's opinions seem to matter to you just let me tell you... You are awesome, fantastic and a great person. You show such kindness and support to all who meet you on Spark and I know that is only carried on through the day in the offline world. You are truly amazing!
    2994 days ago
    i think you're pretty lovable! emoticon
    2994 days ago
  • JUSTME29
    and anytime you forget we will be here to give you a hug and remind you that you have permission to feel what you feel.
    2994 days ago
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    A wonderful goal - learning to love and accept ourselves for who we are today emoticon
    2994 days ago
  • SISSIE21
    I so agree with you on this! I just read a great blog on self love by pixie-licious.

    It really spoke to me, perhaps you will like it too. Hang in there my friend, we will learn to take care of ourselves and love ourselves more and more each day!
    I can improve on my negative self talk, which comes from the same place, lack of self approval and love. Thanks for sharing this... emoticon
    2994 days ago
    That's a great goal!
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