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How Will I Do This

Monday, March 04, 2013

How do I plan to keep myself from emotionally eating? I touched on this a bit in my last blog.
The main thing I am going to do is feel my emotions. I know this sounds like a simple thing but for me it is not. I have pretty much been trained to keep my feelings inside because to so them was weak and annoying. As a result I have stuffed them down with food. So I have decided to just let myself feel,if my emotions annoy someone....well that.s their problem. I also will include some really physical activities to release some anxiety. I think I will start by hitting the punching bag again and once the weather is a little nicer I will start taking my long walks again.



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  • 2B4AHEALTHYLIFE
    emoticon You are setting a great example! emoticon
    2983 days ago
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    Wow, Mo...you are dealing with such a tough task: facing your emotions. Bravo for trying to take the bull by its horns and find a healthy and effective way to manage them. I wish you the best as you figure out how to deal with emotional pain. Eventually, you WILL get through this and begin to feel some relief, I hope.
    Big hugs!
    2985 days ago
  • BBONET
    I agree that this has to be a generational thing. However, I must say that I have been able to open up so much with all my spark friends!!! So remember you are on the right path!!! emoticon emoticon emoticon
    2985 days ago
  • IMIN2GENES
    Hmmm... I wonder if it's a generational thing. I keep a tight lid on my emotions too. Probably explains a lot...

    Sounds like you've got a good plan to start working through the emotional eating. I'll be here whenever you need me!
    Chris
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    2985 days ago
  • MMHELGESON5
    emoticon I have faith in you!
    2985 days ago
  • MOMMY2TWO07
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  • LYNCHD05
    There are a few people that like your idea of a punching bag. I know for sure that exercising of any kind helps relieve stress then enables you to carry on. You have picked a very good topic. I know you can do this.
    2985 days ago
  • no profile photo CD11725650
    Wonderful approach to reduce emotional eating. emoticon
    2985 days ago
  • TEDDYBEAR662
    Good luck! I was so happy when my husband came home with a punching bag! That helps... hee hee. Sounds like you have a good plan and are ready to do this!!!
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    2985 days ago
  • JUSTME29
    It is so hard to feel our emotions. I think many of us train ourselves not to feel them, and so many of us force them down with food. This is a difficult and brave thing to do. Good luck to you!
    2985 days ago
  • WILSONWR
    Sounds like you have a good approach, Mo. Good luck!
    2985 days ago
  • JAZZEJR
    Well...feeling your emotions won't always necessarily mean you have to act them out. I find if I give myself time to feel them, think about the situation some more, absorb it, and decide if it's worth any more of my time--it usually isn't. Done!
    2985 days ago
  • RAINBOWFALLS
    I could use some punching bag workouts to relieve some of my frustration. I find emotion al eating a very difficult task to tackle. Keep trying is the most important part.
    2985 days ago
  • no profile photo CD10259955
    Definitely not a simple task! You are surrounded by emotional eaters - myself included. Fortunately, we can also learn from other Sparkers and find the tools we need to break this pattern and move forward to a healthy lifestyle! emoticon
    2985 days ago
  • SISSIE21
    I really understand where you are coming from. It is so hard to not turn to our 'drug of choice' - food, when life is so stressful. Feeling the emotions is the start, at least for me. The next step is that I learn to deal with feeling the emotions without trying to escape or numb them. Seems the more I practice this, the better it gets.
    I keep telling myself that the answer to my life's problems is not at the bottom of a potato chip bag or at the end of a cupcake binge. Believe me, there are times when I am just not convinced that they won't work!
    But then I ask myself if they will help my problem? Answer is always no. And then I take a walk, take a hot bath, exercise, journal, whack a pillow, whatever works to 'feel and deal' as I call it.
    Keep at it, we are discovering hidden strengths in ourselves with this spark journey. You can do this. We just need to support each other. Good luck!
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    2985 days ago
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