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Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Good afternoon; I called two of my best friends that have husbands the same age or older. One of my friends started laughing so hard - I started laughing, too. she says our men are alike. I went through this same issue. We talked for over an hour. emoticon The other frIend - she did not laugh but was quite a comfort. She says your DH is going through a phase - mine did too. I was patient with him and finally he realized that he was quite a fool. My DH is now sending me Txts that he loves me. He is a fool. I am doing good, but I am pissed. Two years ago he felt it was me when our sex life was not going well. He finally found out through a physical that he needed meds. I love him dearly, but he hurt my feelings when he said the things he did. What I do know if I wanted a better sex life, I would have grounds to cheat. I do not believe in that. I just know our life in that area is very different now. When he asks if it was good for you- I say yes, but I lie. I do not have to hurt feelings. Thank you again.
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    Men are such fragile beings! The only reason the world still functions is because of the women! Hang in there.
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    1940 days ago
    Nancy, I have been mostly off my computer this past week, my sister has been here, and so I stay out of my computer except early morning when she is still asleep, anyway, good grief, MEN, and I know they probably say WOMEN, but still and all, I do not think my DH went through this, but I know he got very withdrawn at times, when it wasn't up to his expectations, and I mean his performance, so, just make sure he knows you think of him as as your Romeo, and hopefully if he has that he may start thinking more of himself, and you also.
    Hugs Nancy, I am sure it will get much better, Hugs, Mary
    1940 days ago
    I'm glad you got some support. Men do go through some pretty drastic changes w/that mid life crisis. **SIGH** And they feel women are difficult to understand as we plow through the big "M". Not so much!

    HUGS sweetie. Keep talking! It helps.
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