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Can my life get any more complicated?

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Good Morning; I am having a hard time sleeping. My DS's GF is here with me. They had an argument over the weekend. Dh and I decided to go and get GF and bring her home. We thought they needed to be apart for a few days. It has worked. DS says that GF is so emotional she screams at me all the time. emoticon My Dh does not like this. It interferes in our life. I just go with the flow. DH is constantly complaining about his job. He went to a business convention and called me up drunk in the evening - he wants to change jobs and told me he wants a divorce if I do not get more sex- but I do not want a divorce- i just want more sex. I was flabbergasted. The next day I called a counselor - she talked to me and told me that men at his age go through a hormonal change. The issue is not enough sex - it is him. He feels insecure and uses sex as a release or a distraction so not to handle his personal problem. emoticon So my life is very complicated at this point. emoticon DS has been talked into a procedure on his spine from another doctor but I want him to go to his surgery for a second opinion b/4 he has the procedure. It also is not good timing with the baby coming. there would be a recovery time. Well I am ending this now and going to gym. I need it. DD doing great. Adrienne will be 1 year old soon. Have a good day. Send prayers! emoticon emoticon

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    1908 days ago
  • SUNNY332
    You certainly are under a lot of stress. Bless your heart. Hang in there and keep calm. Praying it all works out for you.

    1909 days ago
    1909 days ago
    So sorry life is stressful for you. **SIGH**

    I would be flabbergasted if my DH called me w/such information as well. Glad you called a counselor, but if it were me I'd be making some appointments too! You need some support. It would obviously be ideal to go together w/DH, but at least YOU can get some supportive ideaas. **SIGH**

    I hope things settle down between DS and GF. Good grief.

    There is no way I would have a spinal surgery without a 2nd opinion. You're right on about that. I hope your DS listens.

    1909 days ago
    boy that is a plate full . a second opion is always best even a third might be better . life does make it hard to live . so much gets in the way . keep your chin up . a new day and new way is coming . for all of us ladies who are married and men want or think they want a change. perhaps if they just stopped and thought they might not leap over the fence to green pastures . they grass is not greener over in the other meadow . stay home is my advice to them .
    1909 days ago
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