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Friday, February 22, 2013

That's it. I've had. Too much time has been lost on a poor pathetic woman. I don't have the power to change her though. I don't have the power to affect her sad twisted mind, but I do have the power to change mine.

In a weird way, once I really accepted the nature of a stalker and sat down and took actions to avoid her, my anxiety lifted. Once the anxiety lifted I could really see the situation from a different angle.I feel so sad for her, she is so out of control, she has no control over her actions.While I have control over mine. I have the power to change my habits to protect myself from her. She can't protect herself from herself, her worst enemy. I can work reduce the drama and not let it ruin my day. She however is caught in an endless theatre of her own making. I can do whatever is necessary to get healthy on my own ,with the support of family and friends. She, however, needs to be institutionalized, and she doesn't have the ability to do it herself.

A portion of my life is hiding from her right now, but most of my life is lovely and with hope. Hers is hopeless and broken. I am headed for a lighter healthier tomorrow and she is headed for jails and institutions.

My life, no matter what is mine.
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  • BETH49
    Thank you for worry and concern. The problem with stalkers, as I've found out is that there is almost nothing that can be done, until the stalker becomes threatening. All the legal action that could be taken has been. The problem is that it is up to the victim to take control...generally without legal assistance.
    2096 days ago
    It's a good idea to get that crazy woman away from you any way you can. Staying in control of your own life and being strong for yourself can be the best remedy in getting your own life back. I pray that she comes to the realization that the only person she is hurting is herself and gets some help.

    2097 days ago
    I read this, and my first though is, this is not a metaphor. Assuming I am right, you have the right to be protected from anyone who is "stalking" you, and you should report it and get the advice of an attorney as to what can be done to legally keep you safe. Do not just accept this as if it is something you have to figure out how to "tolerate"!!!! It is Illegal for someone to stalk a person, no matter what the reason for the "stalking", and whether you think they will do you no harm or not!!!! Take action now!!!!
    2097 days ago
    Self-love is priceless!
    2097 days ago
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