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I just want normal problems!

Tuesday, February 05, 2013

I wish I had normal problems! Instead of horrible back pain and other serious health issues. Instead of HUGE $$ issues. Instead of marriage issues.
Right now I am waiting on a call from my daughter to see if my 3 yr old GS has to be admitted to the hospital from this horrible flu going around that ALL of my grand-kids have had but the poor little one has the worst. :(

Yesterday while on the phone with her trying to support her MY husband is in the back ground telling me I am crazy & no wonder my ex husband beat me! Mean while I am talking to her and trying to act like everything is okay as she is super stressed out as of all her kids and herself being so sick.

I just want normal problems........ sigh
I want to be able to come here and post to my teams like a normal person. Instead when he does garbage like this it "freezes" me up inside and it's all I can do to do the things I must do to keep our world going.

I want to be free to "worry" (and pray) about my grand kids and other things in life instead of hearing his words rolling around in my mind.

It will take me days (again!) to get past this last verbal attack and be able to move forward past it.

He knows if GS has to be admitted I will need to go & stay with other GK's so my daughter can stay at hospital with the little one & that had him all worked up and acting nasty to me.

I want to be able to function & live like a normal person!

PS: prayers for the little guy appreciated.
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    1899 days ago
    No woman has to put up with verbal abuse! And worse, one of these days perhaps his verbal abuse will turn into physical abuse. I know there are many women out there where this "is" their "normal" lives, but it doesn't have to be like that.

    There are agencies who will help you. Money is never a reason for not taking action. Regardless of your age, your financial situation or anything else -- make the right decision and think of yourself for a change.

    If your daughter is a member of a church, she may also find that some of the women from her church would be willing to help her out.

    Good Luck! I hope things get better for you.
    1900 days ago
  • JASI27
    I agree with everyone else on here. You don't deserve to be treated like that and need to get yourself away from him. You need to make the hard choices. Is going better than staying?? How much are you worth to yourself?? He doesn't deserve you. I am thinking about you and your family and sending many prayers of strength in your direction.
    1900 days ago
    1900 days ago
    emoticon I'm so sorry that your husband is verbally abusing you. I am praying for you and your grandson. I hope your grandson is feeling better soon.
    1900 days ago
    some men can be like children, acting like 4 yrs old, me me me, when in reality, the GS should be focused on. I feel for you Beth. I divorced my child man. It was very hard to do. Not every woman can survive a divorce like that. Sometimes it is the only option, as it was for me. I pray for your GS and for you to be able to completely ignore that man, or have the nerve and the strong words to put him in his place, and I pray that he might, just might, for once listen, hear, and understand, and then grow up to be the man he could be, and make a change. Sorry, child men is a trigger for me. I apologize if I said what I shouldn't have. Be strong Beth. Real woman strong!!
    1900 days ago
    1900 days ago
    money problems follow all . but what he is doing is verbal abuse . he feels you are better then he and he wants to bring you down to his level . stand strong . can you leave this mess and get yourself free . ? as a mom we worry about our children and their children . this is normal . you need to think clearly . why did i choice two men who treat me badly . you are special . i am praying for you . hope all your troubles go away . smile better days are coming .
    1901 days ago
    1901 days ago
    Oh my. I hope your GS heals quickly without the hospital. That is awful of your SIL. Its a shame he feels free to talk to you like that. Sending healing thoughts your way.
    1901 days ago
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