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Saying Goodbye to Mom

Sunday, January 27, 2013

Hello Spark Friends!

I wasn't going to blog about this; but, some of you have asked for updates on my Mom so here goes... I thank you for your follow-ups and asking how she was doing. Sadly, Mom passed away earlier this month. The past couple months were difficult for her and she was very ready to go. Knowing that helps a lot; but, it is still tough. I miss her a lot. I'm VERY thankful for her fabulous 88 years. I can tell you she was the best, strongest, kindest woman I ever met. I wish everyone could have a Mom like ours. We were all truly blessed to have been her children.

Following are just a few of my favorite pics to give you a glimpse of this fabulous woman that was my Mom.

My very fist pic with Mom:


With her sister and others (always smiling):


With my son when he completed Navy bootcamp and on his wedding day:


Mom and me last April:

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  • LVMAMAW
    emoticon emoticon Beautiful tribute, beautiful woman. I miss my Mom, too, but we know they are in peace and we have those beautiful memories! emoticon
    1933 days ago
  • SWDOTB2
    sending my heartfelt condolences for the loss of your mother, thank you for sharing these glimpses into your life and hers...sending love...

    1937 days ago
  • NEWKATHYNOW
    I can feel your pain and I share it. Losing your Mother is a very difficult time. My wonderful Mother died in 2001 and it feels like yesterday. I wish you comfort and peace at this time. The close relationship you had together is a very special one. She will always live on in your heart and your memories. God bless.
    1939 days ago
  • BOBBYD31
    the memories in your heart and pictures will keep her near and dear to you.
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  • WIO_ALISA
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  • SIMPLELIFE4REAL
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    What a wonderful collection of pictures of your mom. I hope her last days were relatively pain-free and that she went quickly in the end. My heart goes out to you.
    1939 days ago
  • EUPHRATES
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    I know how hard it is lady. Thank you for sharing your memories with us.
    1939 days ago
  • 1BEACHWALKER
    My condolences Merle to you and your family! What great pics! Looks like she lived a fabulous life with you and your family! So sorry to hear she passed away...thank you for the update. Very nice blog about her! emoticon
    1939 days ago
  • GRACIEC
    What a wonderful tribute to her! Hugs and prayers!
    1939 days ago
  • JINLYNN
    What a lovely and loving tribute to your dear Mom! I was sorry to hear about her passing. I know you were very close to her, and how you looked forward to and enjoyed your weekly lunches together. May you find comfort in all the many special and treasure memories of your times together, and in knowing that I, and others, are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
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    1939 days ago
  • SANDICANE
    Your wonderful mother lives on...in you. That's the beauty of having fabulous people in our lives...we carry them along with us for the rest of our lives.

    You'll miss her for a very long time and at times when you don't expect it, her memory will pop into your head and then tears will flood your eyes as you remember some wonderful moment the two of you had.

    Thinking of you,
    Sandi
    1939 days ago
  • NORASPAT
    Sorry for your loss.
    I lost my Darling mother way too early from a Factory accident. It is great you have so many photos and fond memories. I can conjure up her lovely face in a heartbeat. It is so nice to have the happy memories in our lives. HUGS Pat in Maine. emoticon emoticon
    1940 days ago
  • CALIDREAMER76
    Merle,
    There are no words to fill the empty spot her passing has left in your life.
    God Grant you and your family peace and comfort!
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    1940 days ago
  • 25OPTIMIZE
    Memories can be blessings. So sorry for the loss of such a wonderful woman.

    Judi
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    1940 days ago
  • RUTHE_51
    I'm so glad for your wonderful memories with your mom. You have a good heritage and so much to be thankful for. However, the pain of the loss with still be with you a while. My prayers are with you. Ruth
    1940 days ago
  • LIVINGSIMPLY355
    Sorry to hear of the loss of you mom.
    Sounds like she was a great lady!
    I'm glad you were able to share about her in this blog.
    Having memories to remember and to share is precious.
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    Sue
    1940 days ago
  • KIN59VARA
    emoticon So sorry for your loss.
    1940 days ago
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  • ANJAYS-JOURNEY
    so very sorry for your loss, much hugs
    1940 days ago
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  • TXGRANDMA
    So very sorry for your loss......... She had 88 years though, and sounds like she had a great life. I know my husband's mother lived to be 98, and she remarked many times about how all her friends and her immediate family was already gone. She missed them and said she did not fear or dread her passing over between this world and the next. I know they are both at peace. emoticon being sent to you and your family at this difficult time.
    1940 days ago
  • MILPAM3
    Wonderful memories will sustain you, although there will be times when you'll miss her oh, so much. She is waiting patiently till you will join her for eternity.
    1940 days ago
  • BE-THE-CHANGE
    So sorry for your loss, Merle. It look like you and your mom had a great relationship.
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    1940 days ago
  • LOPEYP
    Merle, so sorry for your loss. It is always difficult to lose a parent but I am glad that you have lots of great memories. Big hugs to you and your family. emoticon
    1940 days ago
  • VAILIEN1
    Thanks for sharing - it is very tough to lose a parent. I remember that when my father passed away and still many years later, I think of him. He visits me in my dreams and I am always remembering things that occurred between us. I hope memories of your MOM are good ones and that they bring you comfort.

    Wishing you PEACE and much STRENGTH!

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    1940 days ago
  • DLDMIL
    Sorry for your loss, hugs and prayers for your entire family.
    1940 days ago
  • _VALEO_
    I am so sorry for your loss, Merle. I should have understood that something was wrong and be more present for you during this tough time. emoticon

    You have the same great smile than your Mom.
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    1940 days ago
  • ~INDYGIRL
    So sorry for your loss, Merle.
    1940 days ago
  • LASARRE
    So sorry. I know how you feel. I lost my mother who was also 88 in July. That's why this trip to Vegas is bittersweet. This is my first time going without her in 15 years. The last trip was December 2011. She started getting dementia then and I didn't realize it. Just remember all the great times you had. emoticon
    1940 days ago
  • ALWAYSROSY
    emoticon So sorry.

    Loved your tribute. Sending gentle cyber hugs (((((((( Sheenadee ))))))))))
    1940 days ago
  • BATCHICK
    I'm sorry for your loss. Your mother will live on in your heart. Treasure the memories you have of her.

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    1940 days ago
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