Who does this? Men do this!

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Before I start... I apologize for the language!

My f#%king ex boyfriend, James, broke up with me over facebook. This is exact message I received.

Ok I hate telling you this at the time that you are having but my ex wife and I are working things out and are getting back together. I love the time we had together but we live too far away and you are twice as pushy a woman as I have ever seen or met. I hope you find everything you are looking for and I hope you understand that this is not just about me or you or her. It's mainly about the kids that I have. I'm very sorry! And hope you understand.

So being a woman that I am... I need to vent because I didn't and I am not planning on responding to such an asshole!

When we had our first date I asked him if there was any possibilities that the ex wife and him would get back together.

His responses, "No, I can't trust her. She is a cheat. We were dealing with each other 10 years and it didn't work out."

Next thing, Yes we live a little bit farther that I would like. I thought it was ok for now. If you like someone it shouldn't matter the distant. I was wrong.

PUSHY! Hmmm... how can I be pushy if we only see each other once every 7 to 10 days! PUSHY MY ASS! HE JUST DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH AN INDEPENDENT WOMAN! F@CK HIM! We had to plan to see each other because we lived so far away! What the F@CK? We both have kids, jobs and responsibilities! Planning is necessary it is not pushy!

Then to end it all...its about the kids! What the f@ck?!!! Was he looking for a babysitter? I am a woman that wants a real relationship! F@ck him. F@ck this!

Yes I am hurt but this was b@llsh!t!

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    been there and done that you will meet mr right at the right time you dont deserve this im sorry your hurting and if theres anything i can do let me know
    1972 days ago
    OMG! That guy lacks any class whatsoever. I can't believe he broke up with you on FB. What a wimp! That's almost as bad as when Berger broke up with Carrie on a post-it on a Sex and the City episode. I am so glad you chose not to respond to that bull#@!! MEN!!!

    With that being said, my opinion: You are too good for that guy. Count your losses and thank your lucky stars you did end up with a guy that has no b@lls! They're so good at disguising that stuff in the beginning. Take some comfort in the fact that he's returning to the misery of his marriage, while you are free to meet someone worthy of your greatness!
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    1972 days ago

    Comment edited on: 1/24/2013 2:49:07 PM
    They had been seperated for 2 years and their divorce was finalized in February of last year.
    1973 days ago
    emoticon You don't need this ah be patient you will find that someone who realy deserves you ,and will treat you the way you need there is always another fish in the sea of life Hope you find yours xxx
    1973 days ago
    emoticon I understand that you are hurt, but calm down! First of all, how long had he & his Ex-wide been separated? You asked the right question "Do you think you will get back together" & he lied.

    Okay, so let's move on from this point. Its was wrong for him to lie....but lesson leaned. I know its going to be difficult, but pick yourself up & keep going...this relationship not meant to be.

    Give it some time you will find someone that lives closer to your area that hopefully you can share a mire healthy relationship. Good luck & I wish you well!
    1973 days ago
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