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Friday, January 04, 2013

Tomorrow is the last full day I get to spend at home with all my loved ones around me. Tomorrow is the day my ex will be sent off to the airport (one of my cousins is driving him, thankfully), more likely than not never to cross my path again (we work in different areas of law in different cities).

I didn't miss him a single moment during these past two days. My family rallied around me like rabid cats and bit at anything trying to disturb our harmony. We invited some old classmates of my littlest brother over for dinner tonight, they should be arriving any minute now, in order to further bolster our forces.

I don't think the ex'll have the guts to stand against an army of more than 40 people.

He's a rather spineless creature after all. I switched off my German cell (the only number he's got), but apparently he got one of my brothers' numbers and harassed them about making me talk to him since I was "a bitch who just ran off without explaining why". When my brother threatened to call the family on him because he felt like he was facilitating the work of a stalker, he went whining about how he was the injured party here and this strange gaggle of geeks I call my family should have just shut up and left us alone a lot more; he said that they were interfering busybodies who didn't think it was right that he had a greater claim on me (it isn't, of course, and there is no greater claim on me than by family!), that my brother was a prime example of all that was wrong with them, that I was just confused and mistaken and would come to my senses sooner rather than later, that he was the best thing that ever happened to me, that he was the only one who'd ever care for me... and so on.

Brother just hung up, mostly. He was persistent enough to cost him and entire cellphone battery charge.

Sorry, didn't know I was beholden to you, EX. Shut up, suck it up, go home, try your dubious "charms" on the next female (who'll send you packing posthaste, I bet!).

Anyway, the whole stupid thing will be over tomorrow and I'll be back to concentrating on what really counts: My family, my career, my Spark experience and reaching my goals. Nobody to interfere anymore!

Thanks for bearing with me with these posts- I'll need to rant a few more times. I don't dare do it to the geek squad because they'll manage to cause bodily harm, by whatever untraceable means. Not kidding.

These blog entries will remain on rant mode until I can give a final estimate on when I won't be angry anymore. Not likely it will be all too soon, since being treated like a possession and a dumb little girl is among my pet peeves.

*hugs* I love you, though, my Spark friends, please don't doubt that even if these words sound like I'm the most bitter and angry person on the planet.
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    Dealing with an ex can be a very trying experience and sometimes we need to vent. Hopefully now the past can be behind you and you can move forward into a happier place. I am so glad you had family around you.
    1968 days ago
  • INSH8P
    Relationships are the trickiest things that we go through in life. It is a risk to get involved; and then when it goes sour, it feels like the bitterness can get wrapped up in every fiber of your being.

    Great for you, to have a support team to rally around. However you need to deal with this, know that we Spark Friends will stand firm so that you heal in a way that is right for you. Good acquaintances and friends have the courage to support instead of insist -- to listen instead of imposing solutions that are not appropriate to offer or assume.

    Yes, "Hugs". Because you can and will heal -- in your own way, in your own time.

    1968 days ago
    Keep a positive attitude and life is better
    1968 days ago
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