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tears on my pillow

Thursday, December 27, 2012

last night was a bad night. I got into another fight with my boyfriend. He called me lazy and selfish. he called and asked what i was doing and i told him, watching tv and snacking on a few pretzels, and then he got very pissed off at me. he said it was because pretzels have so much salt on them and that i was just eating junk food. Hes made a condition. I cant come up to his apt. unless i walk 4 laps around my apt complex. hes also going to monitor my snack choices more closely too. if its junk hes gonna destroy it. the whole time we were fighting i was crying my eyes out. I dont want to loose him. he was so blunt and to the point last night. im wondering is he like this because he truly cares and wants me to be healthy or just wants me to become his eye candy?
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  • PICKIE98
    Would you allow ME to verbally and emotionally abuse you like that?

    Nobody can step on me unless I get down on the ground.
    If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten.
    IMHO, this person is a controlling, manipulative person who chooses to emotionally abuse people who are vulnerable. You are in recovery, you need tough love, not bullying.

    This man is very lucky he did not talk to ME that way.IMHO!
    1967 days ago
    I am so sorry you were arguing with your boyfriend. To me, he just sounds very controlling and if he cared about you, he wouldn't be making you cry. Just my thoughts. emoticon
    1970 days ago
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