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adding people as friends who DO NOT reciprocate

Saturday, November 03, 2012

You know I am really getting tired of some of the people on this site who apparently are either too STUCK UP or insecure or is it just "BUSY" to add someone as a friend. I thought we were supposedly all in this TOGETHER!!??!!????!!??!!!
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    I learned this years ago. I never add anyone unless they add me first so my feelings don't get hurt.
    2025 days ago
    I typically try to keep my friends list on the low side so I have time to get to know them and send them notes and goodies occasionally. I don't like it when someone friends me just because I posted a comment on their blog. When someone does friend me I read their spark page and see if we have something in common and that they are active on spark. If we have nothing in common I do not friend them back. Sorry if this offends you.
    2027 days ago
    When i was new it took me a while to realize i could add people. it took me months before i even bothered making a sparkpage. i sometime fee l guilty because i have several sparkfriends that i do not always give a lot of attention too. i still add people, but i just struggle to keep up with people as much.

    we all need support and i hope you are getting it.
    2027 days ago
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    2027 days ago
    A lot of people have private pages and they want to keep it private Others do not have the box checked that when someone adds them to their friend list, they get an email message, so they do not know you do it

    Be easy on them Just depends on their settings
    2027 days ago
    I didn't know you had to click on your friend feed to respond to friend requests until recently. Perhaps that is the issue.
    2027 days ago
  • LYNNA1968
    You know who your friends are .......don't waste your time or energy on people that will never know you even posted it. Just smile knowing you have the coolest friends EVER!!!
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    2027 days ago
    I stopped adding people because of this, so what I do is if they add me I add them right back, if they don't I don't bother with them! I go to my friend feed and the ones that I added that didn't add me get deleted. Good luck
    2027 days ago
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