Be Happy for Others
Tuesday, September 25, 2012
The Word for Today
Written by Bob and Debby Gass
'Rejoice with those who rejoice...' Romans 12:15 NKJV
William Barclay said: 'It's more difficult to congratulate another on his success if it involves disappointment to us, than to sympathise with his sorrow...Only when self is dead can we take as much joy in the success of others as in our own.'
Karen Ehman's home had been for sale twenty months when a friend called to say hers sold in twenty days. Ehman says: 'Although I was thrilled...I was a tad jealous...that "poor me" mentality when God answers someone else's prayer and my answer seems to be no, or not right now. As a child I envied kids from two-parent homes...in high school it was other girls' looks and cute clothes...I was average looking, and although I was every guy's pal, I was nobody's gal. In college I envied girls whose prayers for a knight in shining armour were answered...Once married, I struggled with miscarriage and dashed dreams of motherhood...I slapped a smile on my face and attended yet another baby shower. The cure for envy isn't easy...But when you call on God He will tell you...things...you could [never figure out on your own] (Jeremiah 33:3 NIV). Instead of begging Him to sell my house, take away my pain, and fix my kids, I need to ask what He's trying to teach me that I won't learn if He rescues me; and what qualities He's trying to grow in me. God's willing and able to answer our prayers as He sees fit...[His goal is] growing us to be more like His Son.'
Paul writes, 'Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep.' To be Christlike, you have got to be able to do both.
Read the Bible in one year
A careless word may kindle strife;
A cruel word may wreck a life.
A gracious word may soothe the way,
A joyous word may light the day.
A timely word may lessen stress,
A loving word may heal and bless