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Omg, the drama... cant even name it all...

Friday, September 07, 2012

Im starting to lose my mind today. HA


I was doing so good today, I couldnt exercise by myself today at home because b/f had to run errands, so I fought through the exercise all while yelling at my 3 year old as she kept terrorizing the cats like Almira from tiny toons, and it wasn't fun... did you ever try to exercise while arguing? Its sooo aggravating, my god, but I got a great workout in despite all that.

Just as I was about to take a shower from pouring with so much sweat, my Aunt calls... I shouldve never answered. My day after that was ruined. My aunt never has a drivers license, dont know why, so she relies on everyone else to take her places... Now that I am talking to her again, she makes sure she fills my life up. My boyfriend works everyday, and he works when hes not working 90% of the time, so for us to fit all this in I am about to mention is just overwhelming, PLUS OUR VAN TRANSMISSION IS ACTING UP.

She wants us to drive out, take her to her storage unit to sort her stuff and throw out what she cant hold onto anymore... we did that partially last weekend with her, but i will have to put her off this weekend, not gonna freaking happen.

My aunt dosent live down the street either 20 min away.

She tried asking me to pick up her medicine that is the opposite direction from where she lives, 1 hour before my b/f leaves for 2nd shift work, and before i pick up my daughter, not gonna happen= that means she nominated me to pick it up monday or tuesday, ummm hello, I share 1 vehicle with my b/f, and have 2 kids and enough stress. give me a break.

Now we have to fix her buggy shopping cart or find wheels for it, because she broke it... driving to the store we think may have a part will be another hour from my day! that dont include driving it to her, while she has us there she wants him to fix her bike, we already oiled her chain on it, and fixed her breaks and stuff, just so she will never ride it and put it in storage!!! wtf,

Them have to take her grocery shopping! shes not a fun person to shop with, bitc**ng about where people leave their cart, and runs her mouth about how people drive, hello, were the ones driving, not here, lol... so taking it up to her 6th floor apt will be fun also,

AND I HAVE TO take HER SHOPPING THE SAME DAY I AM HAVING MY BOYFRIENDS BIRTHDAY PARTY!! SHE CANT GO ANOTHER TIME. SIGH.

I feel bad because my b/f was jipped out of birthdays or fathers day for a while mainly if we werent getting along, or it just couldnt come together to plan with peoples schedules... I made it an extra effort to do this one and make it good. I gam doing all of it by myself! I have to make sure i can afford stuff, and get cakes and food, and condiments, and drinks, etc!!! now that she has taken over my whole weekend, we have no time for ourselves, oh did I mention that I have to be able to drive her here for the birthday.... so am I supposed to wait while she goes thru all her groceries and puts them away too? Cant do it like that. I told her earlier I was overwhelmed, she was upset, blah blah, didnt do any good but make this a 2-3 day event. So I am stressed.

Now my kids are just crazy today, and with my already stress, I have to continue to take control, all while still trying to find the time to even make a grocery list of what I am supposed to buy.

I missed the chance to buy the gift I wanted to get my B/F, and I now cannot think of anything. =( ugh. I am going to take some deep breaths, drink more water, and desperately try not to eat my stress today. I was doing so well today until she called.



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  • FINDINGJENJEN
    I agree with Nikki on this - it is time for a serious boundaries talk! I know i have people in my life that I feel responsible to do things for, BUT I have found that people are actually more appreciative when they realize that you won't come and help them every time they ask (especially if it's a last minute request). Hang in there- you can do it!
    2259 days ago
  • NIKKICOLE83
    You need to learn how to say no and set boundaries. You don't owe her anything. Whatever you decide to help her with is completely up to you. You didn't put her in any of the situations she is in. If it doesn't work for you or your household, then limit what you do. Period.
    2260 days ago
  • BARCLE
    Sorry - I will have to re-read your blog later ... just couldn't get past the picture lol. It sure would be handy to be able to do that :-)
    2260 days ago
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