Detoxing myself from a toxic person

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Thanks to the wonderful advice from beautiful 1peacebunny I have decided that she was right.
Here we all are getting rid of habits & foods that make us feel ill and worthless, so it makes no sense to have people in your life who do the same.

My (ex) friend has extremely nasty to me recently, called me stupid because I told her I wasn’t racist, called me stupid again when she found out that my partner was from a certain community. Called me plain, and a disappointment looks wise. Then had a go because I couldn’t find a job and dubbed me stupid AND lazy. All of this before getting to the obvious & saying I was overweight and should take better care of myself.

She then vented her feelings about me to mutual friends, proving herself malicious & I am now an outsider….which isn’t so bad because if I wasn’t I would have taken myself outside BY CHOICE!

I don’t want to associate with people like that, I have a better heart & would never make a person feel worthless. My partner is the loveliest man I have ever met, albeit a little strange, lol, but he knows I think that. I love and respect him for who he is and not the label.

People think it’s brave to go against a whole group of friends, but it’s not, it’s just sensible if you have nothing in common.

So, in summing up, I’d rather have my values than theirs, and my partner than them, so I haven’t lost anything

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    Sounds like you have made a good decision. Life is too short to have someone treat you like that. Sounds like you have a wonderful partner who is also your best friend.

    Enjoy your life and live it for yourself!
    2188 days ago
    You are strong, you are beautiful and you are right. You don't need anyone or a group of people who want you to be a robot and live by their standards. Your life is your own and if you can find some one that can appreciate you for the gem that you are all while providing added joy then the negative nancies can suck lemons because they are just BITTER! Also do you really want to be friends with a bunch of adults who can't think for themselves, sounds like their lives is tad sad to me so au revoir!Times are hard all over the world with jobs and those who have them can have them snatched away in an instant and be where you are at. You are trying and you living and most importantly, you are loving and thats the best place you can be right now. SO take faith in knowing that once the toxic people are gone that your life and your outlook will improve tremendously. You have won and they are mad so life is short and you will just keep winning! emoticon emoticon
    2188 days ago
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