Stress, stress, stress

Saturday, April 21, 2012

Okay, so I have been stressed all morning which is NOT a good thing. My fiance is upset with me...again. Sometimes I wonder why in the world I am with him. Like, he causes so much stress in my life because I have a fear he is going to end it with me for something stupid. He's split up with me once and now that I know he has done it I keep thinking he's going to do it again, even though I know he won't. Because he's said he won't. I have hardly eaten because of how stressed I've been. If he would just not get mad at me and jump on my cause every few days maybe I wouldn't be sick all the time with pains and what not. I need to have a long talk with him today if I get to see him. My heart is pounding. If I get an "I love you." from him, then I will be calm and not have an ounce of stress on me. But, right now, I am positive my blood is pumping and that I am on the verge of sickness and starvation. When I'm stressed I do not eat. That is why I have not eaten much today. As soon as the argument is over, I MAY eat. That is if I can find food. But as of right now, stress is my main issue.
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    Listen to what Pam and Patti have said. You can be sure that if he is acting that way before marriage it will be much worse after marriage. That's just the way it goes. You are an individual worthy of respect, but if you do not set the boundaries with people they will take advantage of you. It sounds like he has already done that.

    I, too, am speaking to you as if I were talking to my own daughter or granddaughter. God has just the right mate for you! Don't settle for anything less than God's best!

    2189 days ago
    Your fiance? Please think LONG and HARD before you marry someone who:

    1) Causes so much stress in your life.
    2) Keeps you in fear that he is going to end it (the relationship).
    3) Gets mad and jumps on your case every few days.
    4) Stresses you so much that you cannot eat.
    5) Causes you to be sick all of the time with pains and what not.
    6) Causes you to be on the verge of sickness and starvation.

    I am talking to you in the same manner that I would talk to my daughter, and I am telling you that a wedding ring on your finger will NOT make your situation any better. NOOOOOOOOOOO...It will just get WORSE!

    You are too young to be living with such stress!

    2190 days ago
    My heart goes out to you! Been there, done that! Do not let another person affect you or your health. By not eating you are doing more harm than good. Try to eat a little something!
    2190 days ago
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