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I'm completely hurt!

Thursday, December 29, 2011

Today has been rough for me. I didn't sleep last night because of a fight I had with my now ex best friend. Over the last two years I have done everything possible for her and her family. I loaned them money that has never been paid back. I've helped them clean. I painted their entire house. I helped them move, including borrowing trucks and manpower from MY other friends. I even have watched their special needs son so they could have alone time. Now apparently I'm a bad friend according to her. WHY? Because I haven't been there for her lately. SERIOUSLY? I just had BRAIN SURGERY!!! Aparently I have taken too long to recover for her tastes and should have been a better friend by doing more stuff for them. I never asked her for any help while I was recovering either. But shame on me for not being able to drive for 3 weeks. I guess I should have ignored the Dr.'s orders and driven so I could go visit her. I guess it would be way too much to ask that she could have come to visit me here. I'm so angry it isn't funny. Then her husband wrote me a message calling me names. How vile and immature. All because I told her I didn't appreciate the recent cold shoulder I received. They have never helped me with anything at my house. I see I was only as good as the last thing I had done for them and I was totally selfish for trying to recover from my surgery and subsequent brain infection. Well, I can take solice in the fact that my real friends are still by my side. People that are willing to reciprocate real friendship. People that I don't have to "do" things for to be considered a friend. Time to chalk it up to a lesson learned!
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    Thank you all! I actually have been feeling so much better without the negativity! I have a lot of great family and friends that I have been able to rely on, and they are who I choose to focus my attention to! It's funny the things you can really draw motivation and strength from! emoticon
    2355 days ago
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    emoticon I am very sorry about your "friend". Friendship is a 2 way street. I hope your other friends and family are there for you. Keep up your recovery and don't sweat the small minds of small people!
    2355 days ago
    I'm sorry that your "friend" was such an *** (pardon my French), but you'll be better off without someone who reeks of such negativity.

    You now know who your true friends are.

    I hope your recovery goes better now.

    2356 days ago
    I'm so sorry as that your friendship has been so one sided. I can only hope you find some good local friends and that I can be a decent online friend. Continue to recover as you need to. I hope some good friends come to your aid in your recovery.
    2356 days ago
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