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Thoughts of grief

Sunday, December 18, 2011

1. disbelief: Oh no this is not happening to me!
2. Confusion, forgetfulness
3. Preoccupation or Obsessive thinking.
4. Finality. It will never be the same.
5. Anger; it is not fair
6. If only.... I wish...
7. Forsing solutions and hasty decisions
8. "Paranormal experiences"
9. Dread of more painful things to come.
10. Thoughts of doom and finallity.

not all these thoughts come but I must be aware that the others around me sharing the loss may have some I do not.. Being kind to others at this time may be the secret.
There is no right way to mourn.
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    There is no right way to mourn is so true--we all do it in our own way--yet it is much the same. We go through the stages at a different speed and we will survive this. With God all things are possible.

    Hugs, Mary

    I just noticed the message about a walk with you and Viv--it would be fun so let me know when the next one is.

    2373 days ago
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